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AnxietyLyn BABCP Accredited CBT Therapist & Author
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07/04/2026

Most anxiety advice tells you to change your thoughts.

But if thinking your way out of anxiety worked, you would have done it by now.
Because anxiety is not just in your mind. It is in your body. And it is in what you do. And all three are connected.

The NOW STEP is my CBT based method built around the anxiety triangle.

Notice your body. What physical sensations are showing up right now?
Observe your mind. What thoughts are running? What is your brain predicting?
Witness your behaviour. What are you doing or avoiding because of those thoughts and feelings?

Anxiety pulls you into the future. Depression drags you to the past.

The NOW STEP brings you back to the present moment. And the present moment is the only place where you can actually change how you feel.

This is the foundation of everything I teach inside The Anxiety Academy and my Calm and Present programme.

Want to learn how to use it? Link in bio.

06/04/2026

Health anxiety often begins with something small.

A sensation.
A twinge.
A feeling that seems slightly unusual.
The anxious brain then zooms in.
Checking again.

Looking for more sensations.
Analysing the body constantly.

The more attention the brain gives to the body, the louder those sensations can feel.

Learning to gently shift attention away from body scanning can interrupt this cycle.

Take my free Anxiety Score Quiz to understand how anxiety may be influencing your attention and thinking.

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03/04/2026

It started with the supermarket.
Then the motorway.

Then cancelling lunch. Then the holiday that never got booked.

This is the avoidance cycle and it is the number one reason anxiety keeps winning.

Every time you avoid something that feels threatening, your brain files it as dangerous, stay away. The relief is real. But it lasts minutes. And the list of unsafe places grows.

You are not lazy. You are not dramatic. Your nervous system is doing exactly what it learned to do.
CBT works directly on this cycle.

Not by forcing you to face everything at once, but by gently helping your brain learn what is actually safe.

If your world has been getting smaller, this is where we start.

Take my anxiety quiz link in bio

02/04/2026

You cancelled lunch.

Then the weekend away. Then your friend stopped asking.

And you told yourself it was fine. That you would go next time. That you just needed a quiet day.

But quietly your world got smaller.
This is the avoidance cycle.

Anxiety shows up, you find a way around it, and for a few minutes you feel relief. So your brain learns that avoiding equals safe. And the list of places, situations and things that feel too much grows.

It is not weakness. It is not you being difficult. It is a cycle and cycles have a pattern. Which means they can be interrupted.
This is one of the first things I work on with clients because until you see the cycle, you cannot break it.

If avoiding has got bigger than you realised, save this and come find me. Link in bio.

01/04/2026

Anxiety often creates hidden rules.

Stay in control.

Think everything through.

Check again.

These rules can feel sensible and responsible.

But they quietly train the brain to stay on high alert.

Always analysing.

Always preparing.

Always scanning for what might go wrong.

Recognising these rules is often the first step in breaking them.

Take my free Anxiety Score Quiz to understand how anxiety may be influencing your thinking patterns.

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31/03/2026

Many capable women become the person everyone relies on.

The organiser.

The problem solver.

The one who keeps everything running smoothly.

But that role can quietly fuel anxiety.

The brain begins to believe it must prevent every possible problem.

Over time that creates constant pressure.

Recognising that strength does not mean carrying everything alone can be a powerful step toward calm.

Take my free Anxiety Score Quiz to understand how anxiety may be influencing your thinking patterns.

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30/03/2026

Let’s call out the BS.

Because anxiety does not always look like panic attacks and not leaving the house.
Sometimes it looks like this.

Scrolling your phone at midnight because your brain will not stop.
WhatsApping everyone for reassurance that everything is going to be okay.
Lying awake running through every worst case scenario.
Grabbing the wine or the v**e just to take the edge off.

Waking up with that heavy dread before the day has even started.
Re reading every email before you send it.

Clocking the nearest exit the second you walk in the room.

These are not personality traits. They are not bad habits. They are anxiety in disguise. And they are called safety behaviours and avoidance. And they are the reason you are still stuck.

If you recognised yourself in any of these, take my free anxiety score quiz. Two minutes. No fluff. Just clarity on what you are actually dealing with.

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27/03/2026

The moment anxiety quietly starts shrinking your life. 🫖

One avoidance feels harmless. Then another. Then another until the life you used to live starts feeling out of reach.

As a CBT therapist, I see this pattern every day. Each time we avoid something, the brain logs it as dangerous. And slowly, the world gets smaller.

But here's the truth: it's reversible. Inside the anxiety academy, we use CBT-based small steps to help your brain relearn that you are safe.

✨ Wondering how much anxiety is actually affecting your life right now? Take my free Anxiety Score Quiz.

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26/03/2026

Reassurance can feel comforting when anxiety is high.

But it also teaches the brain something powerful.

It teaches the brain that the thought must be important.

Otherwise reassurance would not be needed.

Over time this strengthens the anxiety cycle.

Thought appears.

Anxiety rises.

Reassurance reduces anxiety temporarily.

Then the cycle repeats.

Learning to tolerate uncertainty is often a key step in anxiety recovery.

Take my free Anxiety Score Quiz to understand how anxiety may be influencing your mind.

Link in bio.

25/03/2026

Rumination often feels responsible.

Thinking carefully.

Analysing every detail.

Trying to solve the problem.

But rumination is actually a loop.

The mind revisits the same thought again and again.

Each time the brain pays more attention to it.

Eventually the thought feels more convincing and more threatening.

Many intelligent women fall into this trap because thinking things through usually works well in life.

But anxiety works differently.

Learning to step out of rumination is often a powerful turning point.

Take my free Anxiety Score Quiz to see how strongly anxiety may be influencing your thinking patterns.

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24/03/2026

Many women assume their exhaustion must be burnout.
Their mind never switches off.
They feel overwhelmed and mentally drained.
But sometimes the real driver underneath is anxiety.
An anxious brain constantly tries to stay ahead of problems.
It scans for danger.
It analyses decisions.
It replays conversations.
It tries to prevent mistakes.
Over time that constant mental activity becomes exhausting.
Understanding whether anxiety is contributing to this can be incredibly helpful.
Because once we recognise anxiety patterns we can start teaching the brain that it does not have to stay on high alert.
Take my free Anxiety Score Quiz to understand how anxiety may be influencing your mind right now.
Link in bio.

23/03/2026

Many capable women carry invisible pressure in their mind.
They feel responsible.
They try to think ahead.
They try to prevent mistakes.
They try to keep everyone safe.
These rules can feel sensible.
But they train the brain to stay constantly alert.
Always analysing.
Always preparing.
Always trying to prevent something going wrong.
Over time that mental load becomes exhausting.
One of the first steps in anxiety recovery is simply recognising these hidden rules.
When we start questioning them, the brain slowly learns it does not have to stay on high alert all the time.
Take my free Anxiety Score Quiz to understand how strongly anxiety may be influencing your thinking.
Link in bio.

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