07/06/2026
I have always loved reading, ever since I was a small child. It has been a constant source of joy, relaxation, adventure, distraction, information and escapism 📖
When we adopted Mae over 2 years ago I found myself unable to read. It seems not only did she completely take my heart but also my ability to focus on text 😕. As I adapted to becoming a mum I simply couldn't find the time or focus to read. I tried SO many different types of books. Then one day I realised, I was waiting for the 'old me' to just pop back in, pick up a book and get absorbed as I used to without any effort from me. The lack of action on my part was keeping me from doing what I so wanted to do. I needed to retrain the new version of my brain to focus if I was to become a reader again. So I started small, ten minutes here, ten minutes there. And one day I realised, I was loving reading again.
When adapting to the changes in life we experience or when we want to make changes we have to choose effort in order to retrain our brain. Consistent, small steps (with a pile of self compassion thrown in) is the way forward.
⭐ The quote below is from the book, a reminder that the parts of our personality that we are not comfortable with do not need our judgement, they need our love and care. They are our wounds not our flaws. We talk about this alot in our training ⭐
🩵 📚 Book recommendations - what shall I read next? If you've read anything that you have enjoyed recently let me know, I'll put it on my list 📚 🩵