31/07/2026
Here are some things people who are deaf or hard of hearing shared when asked what they wishe people knew:
People with hearing loss have trouble understanding people who talk fast.
Don’t be upset if I ask you to repeat yourself. When I ask you to repeat something I did not hear, PLEASE do not tell me it does not matter!
All communication is important.
Don't tell me to LISTEN. I’m doing the best I can.
Just because some of us wear hearing devices does not mean our hearing is restored. We don't have typical hearing.
Hearing aids help, but do not restore hearing.
Being hard of hearing makes me feel as though I’m caught between two worlds.
I’m not being rude when I ask you to repeat yourself.
I’m just a regular kid. If you have questions, ask me. Please don’t just stare at me.
Use captioning for every single thing.
Please don’t continue to repeat the word if I am not understanding. Try putting it in context.
Do not tell me to "turn up" my hearing aids.
Being deaf doesn’t mean you have a sad life.
I can do anything. I wish people would stop assuming what I can and can't do, and just let me try.
Volume control is hard.
Saying "never mind" is hurtful
I am NOT stupid!
If I can't see you, I can't hear you.
If you get frustrated with me because I don’t understand, know that it’s 3X's as frustrating for me.
Being hard of hearing or deaf is not a weakness or sign of lack of intelligence. Treat everyone with respect.
When I tell you I am hard of hearing, please don’t start yelling at me. Louder is not better.
I know you are trying to help, but I would appreciate you waiting for me to tell you what I need or you asking me how you can assist me in hearing you.
My son would like people to know that he will not "outgrow" his hearing loss and that he will need hearing aids for the rest of his life.
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Thank you to the amazing people in this community who shared!
Awareness and understanding are key!
To check out more resources:
Encouragement and resources for parents who are raising kids who have hearing loss, cochlear implants. Support found here through books, blog posts sharing experience of raising kids who are deaf or hard of hearing.