05/06/2026
I came from a world that had just stopped hitting kids with a stick in school era ! True story.
If I ever tried to express ‘anxiety’ I’d of clearly sharply been told to ‘do one’.
It was still entirely normal to be dragged, throw chalk at, chalk board robbers slammed.
And screaming from teachers with saliva flying everywhere, because you didn’t know your 8x table !
All a bit much for a 8 year old.
It was ‘Normal’ - to get a licking, a hiding, a wallop regularly at home, by a grown man. Or your mum with a hairbrush.
Normal for fights weekly, in a - working class all girls school of 900 pupils ! Survival of the funniest or hardest ! 🥊
Teenage years spent around chaos, alcohol, violence and drama in a pub - for some of us, and this is what I called ‘HOME’ for many years.
My nervous system had its work cut out in the early years.
I was on my own from around 17 near enough, a girl in a world that did NOT have the voice it has now, and a heart terrified daily of most things - but survival adaptations helped me bury it.
As an adult and later becoming a mum & wife. The programming, software, systems- needed an ENTIRE re brand & review. The world & enviroment I was in changed. But my software hadn’t.
And here I am now - UPGRADED and continue to allow software updates regularly 🙋🏻♀️❤️
You CAN drop the character you built to survive.
You don’t have to stay there.
And in a BodyFix Method appointment- I show you how you can understand more about why you feel, react and choose some of the things you do.
It’s not that deep, don’t feel shame or embarrassment. But be more curious 🙌🏻
Let’s upgrade you