28/07/2026
Do you find yourself scanning your environment constantly?
Noticing subtle changes in people's behaviour. A sigh. A change in their voice. A shift in their mood.
Wondering if you've said something wrong or replaying conversations long after they've ended.
Feeling responsible for keeping everyone else happy.
Perhaps you've even wondered if you're simply "too sensitive."
Always being on alert is exhausting.
But I wonder if that's really what's happening.
Sometimes, becoming highly attuned to other people's emotions is something we learn because, at one time, it helped us stay safe.
Perhaps this way of being still serves an important purpose because your environment doesn't yet feel emotionally or physically safe.
Or perhaps your life has changed, but your nervous system hasn't quite caught up.
The skills that once helped you notice every shift in another person's mood may have protected you then.
But what protected you then may now be leaving you exhausted.
I wonder what life might feel like if you no longer had to spend so much of your energy watching everyone else.
Hannah 🌿