23/07/2026
Thank you to a lovely Mum who inspired this one in a conversation yesterday. We were talking about what is going on when a child isn’t paying attention - but is clearing the messages modelled.
So we reframed what their ‘attention’ might be looking like, they’re attending if they’re noticing the modelled message and wanting it deleted. Then we had a reflection about keeping going with modelling, reaching out to ask for ideas and finding the joy. Then I suggested it was a bit like fishing…
It’s finding the hook, but considering the environment. Placing the engagement at our door, and noticing things - even if they aren’t how we might expect, or feel are ‘right’.
We can bring a lot of internalised ableism into expectations over children’s communication. What play should look like, what attention and listening should look like, what interaction should be like. Even sometimes what language should look like.
If we take a deeper look at our expectations, perhaps over how a child should show up, but also how we expect progress to be made, we can see glimmers we didn’t know were there.
I’d love to know what ‘hooks’ get your AAC users interested?
Or what shifts have you made in your environment to enable?
Or maybe what notions of internalised ableism have you had to challenge?