23/05/2026
Some people only feel comfortable with the version of you that stays quiet. The version that asks for very little, puts up with too much, and makes themselves smaller just to keep everyone else comfortable.
So when you start speaking up, setting boundaries, taking up space, or finally putting yourself first, it naturally changes the dynamic.
But you were never meant to shrink yourself just to keep a connection alive and healthy relationships should never demand that you abandon who you are.
The right people will find you when you realise that you are important too. Remember, the most amazing connections are built when you are fully and unapologetically yourself.
