04/06/2026
Wonderful post from Steven Bartlett ✊
My mum still tells people how "intense" I was as a kid...turning my bunkbed into a fake business... making fake money so my brothers could spend it at that fake business...
I think my parents thought something was wrong with me... I was always too much.
When you're "too much", too passionate, too ambitious, too excited you make people uncomfortable.
You obsess about your idea until 4am while everyone wants to go to bed.
You cry at films that aren't even sad.
You text long rambly paragraphs when everyone else sends thumbs up emojis.
You care about things that seem ridiculous to care about.
After 33 years of being told I was "too much"... I realised that the people who tell you you're too much are usually living at half volume.
And not because they're bad people... often because someone, somewhere, convinced them that being palatable was more important than being themselves.
The people I treasure most are all "too much". Too emotional, too ambitious, too weird, too creative, too intense, too easily inspired, too many ideas, too honest...🤣
They can all make simple things excessive, interesting, find stories in nature, find business ideas in music...
So if you're reading this feeling like you should shrink yourself to fit - please don't.
The world doesn't need another beige person making careful things and playing it safe. It needs you - it needs ALL of us, at full volume, with all your weird edges and sometimes exhausting passion.
Some people won't be able to handle it, and that's a really important way to filter and find YOUR people... change the people before you change yourself!
And when you find your people, they'll be so happy that you're exactly the amount of YOU that you are.
So so glad to have found so many of MY people! ❤️👊🏾
Have you found YOUR people?