Eleni Kouloumou - Self-Leadership in Love & Relationships

Eleni Kouloumou - Self-Leadership in Love & Relationships ✨ I help women stop repeating old patterns in love — and build relationships that match who they’ve become. Love shouldn’t cost your wholeness.

Through self-leadership, nervous system recalibration & relational discernment. Sessions available in Greek and English

🌹 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞: the masterclass for the woman who’s done mistaking chaos for chemistry.You’ve journaled. You’ve healed.You ...
20/09/2025

🌹 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞: the masterclass for the woman who’s done mistaking chaos for chemistry.

You’ve journaled. You’ve healed.
You swore you wouldn’t go back.

And still…
The spark pulls you toward the ones who don’t stay.
The adrenaline feels alive —
While calm feels suspicious.

You’re not broken.
You’re just wired for a love your body doesn’t yet recognize as safe.

The more you chase the rush, the more your nervous system learns that calm = danger.

You’ll keep leaving the men who could stay — and the part of you that wants stability won’t trust your next yes either.

That’s what we’ll rewire together.

✨ When Chaos Feels Like Love
𝐴 𝑀𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑐𝑙𝑎𝑠𝑠 𝑡𝑜 𝑅𝑒𝑤𝑖𝑟𝑒 𝑌𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝐴𝑡𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝐶ℎ𝑜𝑜𝑠𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝐿𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑆𝑡𝑎𝑦𝑠

Inside this live experience, you’ll learn to:
✅ Understand why calm feels unsafe — and reset it at the root
✅ Stop spiraling for “the spark” — and start anchoring in connection
✅ Feel turned on by trust — not trauma
✅ Reclaim your power to choose love from wholeness, not urgency

📅 Date: Sunday, October 5th
🕰️ Time: 8PM UK / 3PM ET
🎥 Replay included
💫 Investment: £25 / $31
(𝘚𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘤𝘶𝘳𝘦. 𝘋𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘢 𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩.)

👇 Reserve your spot now and let love land in your body:
🔗 Link in comments

Let’s stop calling safety boring.
Let’s rewire the spark that stays.

𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮?Tired of thinking you’re the problem? Like something is k...
11/12/2024

𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮?

Tired of thinking you’re the problem? Like something is keeping you from the love and validation you crave? 😔

🔴 Maybe you’ve wondered: Why hasn’t anyone fought to win my heart?

The truth is, none of them stuck around after the 2-month mark to pamper you with gifts, fun dates, or even the undivided attention you need.

They just gradually let go of the effort, leaving you feeling like you weren’t enough.

What if this wasn’t about you being the wrong one though? What if it was about finding 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 instead?

👉 What you really desire is to feel cherished—fully, inside and out. To feel validated and know, without a doubt, that you matter.

But here’s the truth: 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭.

I’m not talking about just feeling love for yourself. I’m talking about proving it.

𝐇𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐬𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐝𝐢𝐝𝐧’𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡? He was too busy to meet up, or forgot to even call to congratulate you on your promotion?

You wanted to believe him, but his actions told a different story. 🤷🏻‍♀️

𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡. You need love that proves itself through 𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍.

In my 𝐑𝐞𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝟐𝟓-𝐃𝐚𝐲 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞, we’re going to prove that love to you—through consistent, intentional actions. ✅

We’ll also uncover those sneaky "leaks"—the behaviours and choices you’re making that are secretly taking love away from you.

And we’re going deeper than you think. This isn’t just surface-level change. We’ll dive into the habits, beliefs, and behaviors that have kept you stuck, and we’ll transform them.

As one of my clients shared "Working with her was unlike anything I’d ever experienced—she helped me shift subconscious beliefs that were keeping me stuck in dating."

In this challenge, we leave no stone unturned. We’ll focus on the little things that make all the difference in attracting the right partner. 🎯

𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞—𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮?

Imagine a partner who cherishes you and goes above and beyond to show it—like driving across town just to get your favorite Crème brûlée from that quirky French bakery that’s about to close down. 🇫🇷 🧁

That’s the level of commitment you deserve. 🙌

If you're tired of feeling stuck and ready to attract the love you deserve, this challenge is for you.

Want in? Click the link in the comments below!

Just $35 for a life-changing experience—that’s less than $2 a day! 🤩

Plus, I’m including my unique Boundaries Toolkit, which has transformed the lives of so many clients.

You don’t want to miss this! ⬇️⬇️⬇️

05/11/2024

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✨ 𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐚 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐬𝐤 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟: 𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬? 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐘𝐎𝐔? ✨The secret many of us don’t realize i...
28/10/2024

✨ 𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐚 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐬𝐤 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟:

𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬? 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐘𝐎𝐔? ✨

The secret many of us don’t realize is that if you don’t set your own boundaries, life will do it for you . . . And often in ways you least expect or appreciate.

Like the boyfriend you sacrificed yourself for, who finally dumps you and it hurts. ⚔❗❗

Instead of protecting yourself by not giving in to his “childish” demands to stop spending time with your friends, YOU started monitoring everything you said and did to keep him happy. 👎

🛑 Only it was never good enough . . . I mean it would have never been 𝐔𝐍𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐒 & 𝐔𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐋 he sorted out his insecurities.

Sorry not sorry to say this.

𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐎𝐍𝐋𝐘 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞.

It was the only way for me too.

⚠ Because choosing to have what I call a boundary-less relationship costs you the pain of rejection at the very minimum.

You DON’T deserve that.

You are worthy of the person who can give you the best.

Your soulmate? Isn’t that what you expected me to say? BUT it’s NOT. 😉

𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 (𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭) 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬.

So how about we put you in the driving seat of your life, instead of letting life take over your future with dire consequences. 🔥🔥🔥

𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐇𝐎𝐖? ⬇⬇⬇

I have the perfect recording for you and until November 15th, you can access it for FREE.

It’s my 2-day event with the exact steps on manifesting healthy relationships.

Interested? Comment "yes" or DM me for the link!

𝑀𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑠𝑢𝑟𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑐𝑡 𝑓𝑎𝑠𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑔ℎ —𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑠𝑜𝑜𝑛 𝑏𝑒 𝑎 𝑝𝑎𝑖𝑑 𝑚𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑐𝑙𝑎𝑠𝑠.

Let’s break free from the past and create a brighter future for you! 💖

𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐞𝐫𝐭_____________________________This manifestation mistake is WHY you haven't manifested your soulmat...
01/10/2024

𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐞𝐫𝐭

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This manifestation mistake is WHY you haven't manifested your soulmate yet.

👇👇👇

You're focusing too much on visualizing HIM in the future and y̳o̳u̳'̳r̳e̳ ̳n̳o̳t̳ ̳p̳r̳e̳s̳e̳n̳t̳ ̳i̳n̳ ̳y̳o̳u̳r̳ ̳l̳i̳f̳e̳ ̳n̳o̳w̳.̳

👉 Which makes you lose touch with reality and miss opportunities of love.

I want you to think of manifesting love as the art of baking 🍰

Your soulmate = the finished cake ❤

But ❗ first, you need the ingredients: moments that make you feel loved and appreciated.

In fact, in the same way that top chefs fall in love with their ingredients 🍚🍍🍈 YOU also need to fall in love with what I call your life's "WHOLE" moments.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐞𝐱𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲?

Moments that suck you in, making you fully present and your life worthwhile. 💎

When I review my work with clients who nailed love, this is the common ingredient: They've all learned the skill of living fully 🧘‍♀️🤸‍♀️💃

As crazy as it might sound, love is not about finding HIM.

But about learning HOW to live whole moments in sequence, which ALWAYS leads you in finding your soulmate.

𝐎𝐧 𝐎𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝟏𝟒𝐭𝐡 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝟏𝟓𝐭𝐡, 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝟐-𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲, 𝐬𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐬𝐨𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝.

Now, for the first time ever, I’ve taken the secrets that helped me manifest love and create synchronicities in my relationships and life, and put them into a 2-day free Masterclass called 𝐈𝐍𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐋𝐘.

In this Masterclass, I’ll teach you the exact first steps to mastering the art of love manifestation.

🙌 If you’re tired of hiding from the world in fear of rejection…

✌️ If you’re ready to let go of disappointment and adopt a YES mindset, where everything feels like an opportunity…

🫳 If you’re ready to release limiting ideas of what love “should” look like…

Then THIS Masterclass is designed for YOU.

🦋 This is where true expansion happens.

You may even find yourself attracting men who ask you out in the most unexpected places—just by applying what you learn. Don’t be surprised 😉.

When you’re fully open and in love with life, life will reward you with exciting, unique opportunities.

And trust me, this isn’t like any other manifestation class. We’re not talking about mood boards or affirmations.

💫 We’re diving deeper—unlocking your power to manifest love through actionable, real-world steps.

Want to join me?

Drop the word "INSTANTLY" below or DM me.

𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐞𝐱𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭? 𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐁𝐚𝐝?𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡...
11/09/2024

𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐞𝐱𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭? 𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐁𝐚𝐝?

𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞? 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐮𝐭.

I'm told I’m great at manifesting. Like when I wished to have some alone time and the right opportunity came up for me to spend a week away from my family having all the time I needed by myself.

Two nights ago, I made up this bedtime story for my kids about this beautiful deer that was wandering near a big house, on the outskirts of a forest 🌳🌳

Come the next morning, as I'm driving my eldest to school, a deer appears out of nowhere in the road.

I quickly slam the breaks only for the deer to trot safely to the other side and into the trees. Phew!!

Deer are one of my favorite animals 🦌 and I went on about my day feeling so much gratitude for this magical encounter.

It wasn’t until later that night, when I was about to craft yet another bedtime story for my kids that it hit me.

𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐦𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲, 𝐈𝐍 𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐋 𝐋𝐈𝐅𝐄.

𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐭? 𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐛𝐮𝐦𝐩𝐬 💥💥💥
𝐈 𝐤𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐌𝐀𝐆𝐈𝐂𝐀𝐋.

✨ When you live in the moment;

✨When you soak life’s little joys;

✨When you dive in feeling these moments in your imagination without any expectations (exactly how I come up with my stories);

Some amazing things can happen 🙌

And these "WHOLE" moments as I call them are the meaning of life and relationships.

❌ Your dating or romance is not just about finding that “happily ever after.” That’s the end result of the little moments.

✔️ Your dating or romance is about enjoying each step of the journey, appreciating the little things your date does, and figuring out what truly makes you happy along the way.

It’s a skill to be fully present in the moment, and it’s something I guide my clients how to do along with all the shortcuts to get there.

🔥 When you appreciate your partner for those little moments like how they touched your shoulder or looked at you with understanding for that split second, you will attract more moments like that.

Moments that suck you in and make life worthwhile.

You see dating is not about finding him.

It is about finding each moment, followed by another WHOLE moment and then those moments make up your fulfilling love story 💞

𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐚 𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐢𝐜 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬.

So here’s a fun challenge for all of you manifestors out there.

What’s the coolest moment you manifested recently? Drop your stories in the comments below. 👇👇👇

𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞: 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐅𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬 🌟 𝐏𝐨𝐝𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐋𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐢𝐧 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬!!! __________...
01/09/2024

𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞: 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐅𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬 🌟 𝐏𝐨𝐝𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐋𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐢𝐧 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬!!!
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🪄 Is saying "I Love You" to yourself the best way to practice Self-love?

The answer might surprise you because it’s NOT. ❌

Have you ever recited affirmations to boost your self-esteem, but still stayed at the exact same place?

🔺Feeling angry as ever at the way he ignored you, but still so drawn to him despite his lack of commitment.

🔺 Or Are you still hanging out with that "friend" who repeatedly creates drama in your life, claiming this is about forgiveness and being open minded;

The truth of the matter is that reciting affirmations is too weak to lead you to self love.

𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐢𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲’𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 💪

One of my clients just nailed it the other day when she recognised that she now trusts her husband because he’s not just empty words.

She ONLY started believing him now that his actions matched his language. 🏆🏆🏆

And this is the deal: Words only have power if Actions match them.

For you to feel loved, YOUR WORDS NEED TO MATCH YOUR ACTIONS. 🔥

In fact, you don’t need words at all to show you that someone loves you. BUT you do need actions.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬: 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝?

🔑 That’s the key and here’s a glimpse of what this looks like:

👉 Refusing to complain about what you don't like and leaping into planned action to gain what you desire .

👉 No more numbing and indulging in acts of self destruction.

👉 No more freezing and staying put thinking that's only temporary.

👉 Full accountability and being there when sadness visits you.

It's not for the fearful, but for the brave who're ready to take on whatever comes their way and process it in exchange for a life with a purpose.

So when you say that you love yourself, think again.
Do you really? Your Actions count!!!

𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞?
This is a topic I covered recently in 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐚 𝐕𝐢𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐏𝐨𝐝𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐭 I was invited on by Ashika Lessani - Women's Personal Mastery & Leadership Coach.

Check the link in the comments below ⬇️ to gain more insights and practical actionable steps on how to master Self-Love & relationships 💘💓💞

14/08/2024

I am loved because you love me. Hmm…WATCH OUT that
you don’t base your lovability on someone else’s feelings towards you; true love always starts from within YOU💪

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