26/10/2026
𝗡𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝘀𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺 𝗿𝗲𝗴𝘂𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗻 🌱
I had the most amazing conversation while on the train the other day.
It'd been a while since I was last in London, and I happily boarded a nearly empty train, ready to enjoy the journey. A younger woman sat in front of me, and we started chatting, moving very fast from the 'Where are you travelling to today?' to an in-depth, inspiring conversation about nervous system regulation.
I'm still not sure how we got there. The conversation just flowed, starting from the shared understanding of health as something well beyond treating the body as a machine to be fixed.
We considered how we have somehow been led to believe that doctors, nurses, physiotherapists (and I’m one of them) and all the other amazing healthcare professionals out there have the solution to all of our health problems. We leave our symptoms with them and they will give us the perfect pill, injection, surgery or movement that will take the problem away. When it works, it's great, and I am, of course, forever grateful to the medical model and how well it can now treat so many conditions, reducing suffering and improving functional outcomes.
However, this just doesn't work in so many cases, and we both had experience of this.
The problem, as I see it, is that of education. Only a few of us have ever heard about the marvellous 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙚𝙭𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙩𝙝, and this is usually through having had to navigate health challenges that the medical model couldn't fix. We had to learn about the nervous system and its regulation, which finally brings back together body, mind and spirit into an 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙜𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙤𝙧𝙜𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙨𝙢 𝙞𝙣 𝙙𝙮𝙣𝙖𝙢𝙞𝙘 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙞𝙩𝙨 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙚𝙭𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙚𝙣𝙫𝙞𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩. This is not a new model, but something that we are slowly re-discovering, now supported by the most advanced neuroscience.
As the train pulled into London, we came to two conclusions.
Firstly, how wonderful would it be for people to learn early in life about a more holistic approach to health. That’s part of the reason why I write these posts, planting little seeds that will grow whenever conditions are right 🌿
We also considered how 𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙤𝙪𝙨 𝙨𝙮𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙢 𝙧𝙚𝙜𝙪𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙞𝙨𝙣’𝙩 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙝𝙣𝙞𝙦𝙪𝙚𝙨, but about 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙪𝙥 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛, again and again, acknowledging and caring for your needs as they arise. It’s about pausing, taking a breath, moving and connecting with awareness, which is 𝙨𝙞𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙙, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙤𝙛𝙩𝙚𝙣 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙙𝙤, especially when the nervous system has been trained to expect danger and stress.
It’s also quite helpful to always remember that progress is never linear, but tends to look like the image I’ve chosen for this post – it’s all up and down, and back and forth, and it’s the 𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙪𝙥𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙 𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙙 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙛𝙤𝙘𝙪𝙨 𝙤𝙣 you need to focus on, especially when going through a more difficult patch.
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