07/08/2026
I’ve been going project at college called ‘River of Life’ it’s basically a story of your life in pictures, a guess a little like the 80’s TV show ‘this is your life’. No one keeps albums anymore, I think that’s sad. My mom used to sick ours onto old wallpaper books together with all our certificates of achievement, little cut outs from old newspaper articles we were mentioned in, all wrapped up like a picture book time capsule. Looking at old photos, the physical ones in an album has such a powerful effect on your psyche and senses. You remember the people both in and outside of that shot, sometimes the people behind the camera, it takes you to both good and dark places in equal measure. I’m happy that my time line has been eventful and that it has led me to where I am. I don’t regret too much apart from some of the hairstyles, but a can blame my mother for some of those 😂
What is good about this exercise is it helps you to see how time goes by so fast and that wasting it worrying about silly stuff, or things you can’t control is a waste of energy. It’s also a reminder to hold those you love close while you still have them ❤️
It’s also a really good thing to do to help someone through grief as sometimes in the early stages, you only remember the bad stuff. Photos capture good times and it’s nice to help someone be reminded of them. So the next time you’re at your oldies house, ask to see the family album, you’ll be surprised what you’ll learn.