03/06/2026
Could your ‘strengths’ be holding you back?
For years I (Laura) defined myself as highly driven, organised, reliable, dedicated (bla bla bla).
I said it 1000 times in interviews, plastered it all over my ‘good girl CV’, but the truth was I was performing a lot of these things and DID NOT HAVE A CLUE who I was underneath these labels I wore with pride to earn validation from anyone in authority. Can’t just be me?
What are you defining yourself as and calling it a strength?? It might be. But don’t believe everything you think. Be curious, be skeptical, question where it came from… is it a strength or is it a survival strategy?
(Btw I hate the “what’s your strength?” question in interviews!)
But at least now I could answer it authentically without scrambling in the dark.
Don’t be a slave to these parts & patterns like I did. Figure out who you are beyond the parts you’re performing for other people.
It’s the ONLY route to genuine freedom & fulfilment.
Curious to know if you’ve changed how you define your strengths??? Lemme know ⬇️
Strengths | BS Interview Questions where everyone lies because they don’t know who they are | Self Development | Building a life of freedom & fulfilment | Interview questions | Quarter Life Crisis
