21/05/2026
This is something I see in almost every couple I work with where one partner speaks Greek (or tge local language if they’re in another country) and the other doesn’t.
It usually starts small. One partner handles the first doctor’s appointment because they speak the language. Then the next one. Then the insurance call. Then the pharmacy. Then the forms at the municipality. And before either of you realises what’s happened, one person is carrying the entire administrative and medical weight of your life together - while also becoming a parent.
The other partner doesn’t step back on purpose. They just gradually stop being part of decisions they can’t fully understand. They smile and nod. They ask “so what did they say?” afterwards. They feel dependent, frustrated, and sometimes invisible - but they don’t say anything because at least they’re not the one carrying the baby.
Neither of you planned for this. Neither of you is doing anything wrong. But if you don’t name it and talk about it before the baby arrives, it quietly becomes the foundation your early parenthood is built on. And by the time anyone notices, the pattern is set.
If this sounds familiar - or if you’re pregnant and reading this thinking “this might be us” - the time to have this conversation is now.
This is also one of the topics we go deeper on in the group antenatal course - how to prepare together, communicate as a team, and make sure both of you feel informed and involved, even when the system around you is in a different language. The next one starts June 3, and there’s a July group with an in-person element in Athens. DM me COURSE if you’d like to know more.