14/08/2026
Dear Friend,
I donât need you at your best
when you come to my home.
I donât care what you are wearing
or what car you drove here.
I donât care if there is food on your shirt
or your hair is full of knots.
None of that matters to me.
I care about you.
I care about whatâs in your heart,
how afraid you are.
What you worry about in the night.
I care about your deepest fears
and your biggest dreams
and I am there for it all.
If you are chaotic, I wonât judge.
Thatâs my promise to you.
So, donât cancel me
because your house is a mess
and your cupboards are bare.
I will bring what you need with pleasure
and I will listen to your problems
without measure or malice.
If you are on the floor, Iâm picking you up,
or Iâm sitting right down beside you.
You need never be alone down there.
And before I leave
I will have made you smile at least once.
Thatâs my promise to you.
So, save your best for someone else, my friend because I want you just as you are.
Thatâs what friends are for.
Donna Ashworth
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