28/10/2026
“My biggest regret is not looking at my children's faces enough.”
Reading those words from my sister, Gerrie O'Grady Finn, is heartbreaking. Even when you have been alongside someone through such a difficult time, seeing their experience put into words can bring it home all over again.
Gerrie’s stroke, and the permanent vision loss it caused, marked a heartbreaking time for her and all our family. There was fear, uncertainty, and grief as she adjusted to changes that touched so many parts of her life.
In this Irish Independent article, she shares that experience.
As her sister, I feel the personal weight of her words. Through my work as a Disability, Equality & Inclusion Trainer with AbilityWise, I also see an essential message for employers: disability can be acquired at any time, including during an established career.
The National Disability Authority's 2019 factsheet reported that 70% of disabled people aged 20–64 acquired their disability after the age of 16.
Gerrie O' Grady is the manager of Cork Deaf Association. Following her stroke, she returned to work with support from the Department of Social Protection's Work and Access scheme. That support helped make her return possible.
Her experience, knowledge and leadership remained. What changed were her access needs.
Returning to work can be deeply meaningful, but it should never depend on determination alone. People need time, understanding, reasonable accommodations and practical support that responds to their individual circumstances.
For employers, this means recognising that disability inclusion is also about the people already on your team. A colleague can acquire a disability tomorrow. The support you provide can make a profound difference to their opportunity to remain in work and succeed.
Gerrie O'Grady Finn thank you for sharing something so personal & highlighting your experience. I hope your words encourage others to listen, understand, and put the right support in place. Thank you most of all for being wonderful you.
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