27/03/2026
You are way more than you think!
We often think our identity comes from what happened to us..our history..our timeline..our story.
This is the ๐๐ข๐จ๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฉ๐ก๐ข๐๐๐ฅ self - the facts of our life: past, present, future.
But transpersonal psychology invites a deeper question..itโs not just what happened to us, itโs how we experienced those happenings.
This is the ๐๐ก๐๐ง๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐จ๐ฅ๐จ๐ ๐ข๐๐๐ฅ self- the meaning we make, the way we and were shaped by the events in our lives.
And over time, those lived meanings shape different parts of us - subpersonalities that become active modes of being that live inside us and still show up today...the inner critic, the inner child, the judge, the high achiever, the rebel, etc.
AND thereโs yet another layer.
The โIโ - the observing self -the part of us that can notice our thoughts, our reactions, our patterns across time. This "I" is not defined by any past events, is neither the roles nor the stories but the one who is aware of them.
So we have 2 ways of experiencing the same SELF:
โข The SELF in the experience that changes depending on the context & feels different across situations &
โข The SELF that notices the experience.
Psychosynthesis reminds us that we are shaped by our experiences but we are not limited to them. We are not fixed..we are fluid & move in & out of different roles and ways of experiencing the same moments.
Our SELF is not "Who I am"...its "the journey I am"..the Self is unfolding through time & continuously being shaped, re-shaped, interpreted & re-expressed.
Understanding SELF in this way matters because it loosens the grip of the past..we begin to see that our life is not just a story weโre trapped inside,
but something we are actively living, sensing, and shaping.
And in that space of awareness, something shifts-
We are no longer only what happened to us, we can see our difficult experiences without being consumed or defined by them.
So rather than ask "Who am I?", we ask "who I am NOW?" With that question, we can respond rather than react to our circumstances.
This is ๐๐ฌ๐ฒ๐๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐จ๐ ๐ข๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ.
We dive deep into this at our Homecoming retreat.
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