28/05/2026
Cathy, Dublin
I had a wonderful time feeding my two when they were babies. I put a lot of effort into educating myself in advance of my first birth, and was lucky not to have much difficulty with establishing feeding. I had lots of support from my husband at the start, and encouragement from my aunties as my mum passed away when I was 19.
The challenges came when I went back to work. I developed bad separation anxiety, and I was quite unwell for about 9 months. Pumping and breastfeeding helped me feel connected to my daughter through this time and helped me survive. However, my husband found looking after her when I was working (especially at night) very distressing and blamed breastfeeding.
When it came to back to work with my son I asked for shift accommodations which were not given easily. It caused me a lot of stress and I felt very unsupported. I still managed to feed both my children until two and a half, which I am very proud of. I would love to see more support for natural term breastfeeding and normalising feeding older children.