24/07/2026
Self-care has been turned into a product.
A candle isn’t self-care if you’re running on empty. Neither is a face mask if you’re saying yes when you mean no.
Real self-care is often the uncomfortable stuff:
• Setting boundaries.
• Asking for help.
• Resting without earning it.
• Feeling your feelings instead of pushing them down.
• Choosing yourself, even when guilt tags along.
In Ireland, many of us were raised to “keep going”, “not make a fuss”, and put everyone else first.
Maybe the most radical act of self-care is putting yourself at the very top of today’s “to do” list!
Or maybe it’s giving yourself permission to just not “do” anything!
💙 Happy International Self-Care Day.