01/06/2026
You learned this very young.
Don’t cry. Don’t make a big deal of it. People have it worse
So your body learned, early on, that feelings weren’t welcome. You learned to look away from the heaviness in your chest. The tightness in your stomach. The grief that wouldn’t go quietly.
Somatic therapy is the slow work of unlearning that.
Not one big emotional release. Just small, careful returns. Each one a little longer than the last.
But here’s what most people miss — you can’t do this alone. You learned to disconnect in relationship. So the reconnecting has to happen in relationship too.
That’s what Part 3 is about
Save this if it named something you’ve been carrying. Send it to someone whose body has been holding more than they were ever taught to feel.
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Hi, I’m Anitha — a trauma-trained somatic psychotherapist based in Chennai, working with clients in person and online globally. My work is attachment-based and integrates parts work.
Connect via my website: www.themindbodycounselling.com
Clinicians interested in somatic supervision — connect via my website.