04/05/2026
Today felt heavier than usual.
After a joyful, laughter-filled club assembly at Namaste Dwar, the day turned into a stark reminder of reality at work.
On ultrasound, I detected two fresh cases of breast cancer—both in women who have been associated with me for years. One, 60 years old, whose family I’ve known for nearly two decades. The other, just 41, a mother whose pregnancy ultrasounds I had done for both her children—the elder now 15.
Both cases showed features highly suggestive of advanced (Stage 4) malignancy.
What stayed with me wasn’t just the diagnosis—but the delay.
Neither had ever undergone a mammography.
Both had reasons that are all too familiar:
• “It must be a bruise—my grandson keeps bumping into me.”
• “It wasn’t painful, so I didn’t think it was serious.”
• “I was busy with other things…”
This is not negligence alone. This is a reflection of a deeply rooted mindset—where women put themselves last, ignore warning signs, and continue to live with myths that cost them dearly.
Breast cancer does not always hurt.
Silence is not safety.
Today left me with a heavy heart—but also with a stronger resolve.
To keep speaking. To keep urging. To keep fighting.
I quietly guided their families, arranged immediate mammography, and ensured urgent consultation with a breast surgeon—because no further delay can be afforded.
If you are reading this:
Please don’t wait. Don’t ignore. Don’t assume.
Your health matters. Early detection saves lives.
Let’s change this story—for ourselves and for the women around us. 💗
