04/08/2026
Rumi said, "If everything around seems dark, look again; you may be the light."
This is an extremely profound statement that has been realized by so many scientists, poets, authors and philosophers throughout the world.
Harry Potter found the philosopher's stone right there in his pocket; Kung Fu Panda, the animated movie, taught us - "the secret ingredient is nothing but YOU"
We look for answers elsewhere, yet it may be right there close to you or within you.
1. Quiet the noise
I had the privilege of learning mindfulness meditation from Sarana Institute, inspired by Dr. Agnes Wong, MD, PhD, FRCSC. We learned that our minds are like the waves of the ocean; our worries and fleeting thoughts are like the turbulent waves on the outside; however, when we dive deeper, we find calmness and the solutions to every problem lie there. Just look for it and you will find the answer!
2. Cultivate Self Awareness
Training in behavioural neurology not only helped me analyze disease states and neurodegenerative conditions, but also helped me decode the complexities of human behaviour to some extent. Remember, it always starts with you. Healing ourselves makes us better healers.
3. Connect with your values
We should have a strong understanding of what (not the matter, but the mind) we are made of. Who we truly are? Our characters are forged in the mould of our daily habits and actions. Integrity is quietly engraved when nobody is watching you. You are your best critic.
4. Tune into intuition
The metaphorical heart whispers and shows you signs. It has the map that traces your journey. Sometimes you need to quieten down your logical and analytical mind to listen to the whispers that talk about limitless possibilities, breaking free of societal and generational limiting beliefs.
5. Examine core beliefs
Your brain is an enigma. It is equipped with 'Metacognition' that observes you, corrects you, helps you understand your strengths and limitations. Hone your skillset and work on your limitations, provided it helps you fulfil your dreams.
6. Find inner peace
The key features of life are -
- Impermanence
- Uncertainty and
- "This too shall pass"
Our overstimulated brains are victims of "hedonic adaptation". We start normalizing achievements, forget to celebrate small victories and start running after the next award or accolade. Nothing makes us happy anymore. On the opposite spectrum, we tend to become emotionally numb to our losses and sorrows. It is important to pat yourself on accomplishing something that makes you happy. It is equally important to cry...to feel the pain of loss and failure. Feeling every emotion is what makes us human, what makes us resilient yet vulnerable beings.