21/01/2026
One of the most common myths about domestic violence is the belief that if the abuse were “really that bad,” the person would simply leave.
In reality, leaving an abusive relationship is often the most dangerous and complex step. It can involve serious safety risks, financial and housing barriers, concern for children, immigration or visa issues, and intense emotional overwhelm caused by fear, trauma bonding, and manipulation.
Staying is not a sign of weakness.
It is often a sign of survival.
Understanding these realities helps reduce blame, increase compassion, and create safer pathways to support for those experiencing domestic violence.
