05/08/2026
"LIVE, AND LIVE SO TOTALLY that you come in contact with yourself...
And there is no other way to come in contact with yourself. THE DEEPER YOU LIVE, THE DEEPER YOU KNOW YOURSELF, in relationship, in aloneness. The deeper you move in relationship, in love, the deeper you know.
"Love becomes a mirror.
And one who has never loved cannot be alone, he can at the most be lonely. ONE WHO HAS LOVED AND KNOWN A RELATIONSHIP, CAN BE ALONE. Now his aloneness has a totally different quality to it, it is not loneliness. He has lived in a relationship, fulfilled his love, known the other, and known himself through the other. NOW HE CAN KNOW HIMSELF DIRECTLY. Now the mirror is NOT needed.
Just think of someone who has never come across a mirror. Can he close his eyes and see his face? Impossible. He cannot even imagine his face, he cannot meditate on it. But a man who has come to a mirror, looked into it, known his face through it, can close his eyes and see the face inside.
That's what happens in relationship. WHEN A PERSON MOVES INTO A RELATIONSHIP, THE RELATIONSHIP MIRRORS, REFLECTS HIMSELF, and he comes to know many things that he never knew existed in him.
THROUGH THE OTHER HE COMES TO KNOW his anger, his greed, his jealousy, his possessiveness, his compassion, his love, and thousands of moods of his being. Many climates he encounters through the other.
BY AND BY A MOMENT COMES when he can now be alone; he can close his eyes and know his own consciousness directly. That's why I say that for people who have never loved meditation is very, very difficult.
THOSE WHO HAVE LOVED DEEPLY CAN BECOME DEEP MEDITATORS; those who have loved in a relationship are now in a position to be by themselves. Now they have become mature, NOW THE OTHER IS NOT NEEDED. If the other is there they can share, but the need has disappeared; now there is no dependence.
Osho🌹❤️
Tao: The Three Treasures
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