30/07/2026
7 steps to deal with abandonment trauma
🌱 Accept the wound – Acknowledge your abandonment fear.
🧠 Know your triggers – Identify what activates it.
❤️ Validate yourself – Don’t rely on others for worth.
🗣️ Express your needs – Communicate honestly and calmly.
🚧 Set boundaries – Stop people-pleasing and overgiving.
🌼 Build self-security – Invest in yourself and your growth.
🤝 Heal through therapy – Process the trauma with support.
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