27/07/2026
There was a time when I believed love and intimacy were no longer meant for me.
As a young person living with HIV, I carried more than my diagnosis I carried fear. Fear of rejection. Fear of being judged. Fear that if someone got close enough to know the truth, they would walk away.
I watched friends fall in love while I questioned whether I even deserved to hold someone's hand. Every time I liked someone, I wondered, "When do I tell them? Will they still see me the same way?" Those questions broke my heart long before anyone else had the chance to.
There were moments when I thought it would be easier never to fall in love than to risk being rejected because of my status.
But with time, I learned something important: HIV does not take away my worth. It does not stop me from giving or receiving genuine love. It does not define the kind of partner, parent, or person I can become.
Today, I speak not only for myself but for every young person living with HIV who has ever felt afraid to love or be loved. You are not alone. Your status is only one part of your story it is not the whole story.
To anyone living with HIV: keep taking your medication, know your status, and remember that you deserve respect, honesty, and love just like anyone else. The right people will see your heart before they see your diagnosis.
Our stories don't end with HIV. Sometimes, they begin with courage.