Vanessa van Vliet - Psychologist/ Psychotherapist

03/08/2021

August 4: a date that is engraved in our bodies, minds and hearts.
A day that is hard to forget. As the date approaches, writing this post was not easy.

This post is dedicated to all our victims and survivors. It’s dedicated to us all.

24/04/2021

Psychotherapy is about an alliance built between 2 individuals: the therapist and the client. It’s about building a relationship of trust that will enable the client to truly sit with themselves in the presence of another person. While one’s approach and chosen techniques are important, they remain secondary to the human connection.

07/03/2021

We may have been taught to deny, minimize and fear our unpleasant feelings. We may have learned to perceive those feelings as negative, threatening and therefore we set them aside. So instead of riding the wave, we find ourselves stuck in patterns of dysfonctionnel behavior and coping strategies that no longer help us cope and therefore defeat their purpose.

Here is the things though, feelings are just feelings. We are fully equipped to handle all range of feelings, even the most painful ones like fear, insecurity, sadness, etc.
By allowing ourselves to acknowledge the presence of the existent feeling, we give ourself permission to face it, process it and let go it.

So with every genuine moment of heartfelt feeling comes the opportunity of growth .
With every genuine moment of heartfelt feeling comes the opportunity of release.
With every genuine moment of heartfelt feeling comes the opportunity of empowerment.
With every genuine moment of heartfelt feeling comes the opportunity of freedom.

20/02/2021

31/12/2020

To a 2021 filled with lessons learnt, inner peace, good health, self care and ofcourse Hope!

Happy new year!