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KinTSou Therapy KintSou Therapy is the brainchild of Souyenne Hackshaw a licensed therapist in St Lucia

The Ones You Didn’t Bring UpOnce again, you find yourself begrudgingly letting it go.The friend who canceled again. The ...
13/09/2026

The Ones You Didn’t Bring Up

Once again, you find yourself begrudgingly letting it go.

The friend who canceled again. The partner who forgot, again. The “that’s fine” you said when it wasn’t fine at all.

None of it big enough to bring up on its own. So it goes unnamed, and you call it being easygoing.

This week we’re not chasing the big betrayals. We’re looking at the small ones that pile up quietly, unspoken.

📝 What’s something small someone didn’t follow through on this week that I decided wasn’t “a big enough deal” to bring up?

📝 Where did I call it “being easygoing” when it was really lowered expectations?

📝 What did I laugh off this week that actually stung more than I showed?

These prompts are meant to help you understand yourself a little better; do 1, all, or none.

This content is for educational purposes and isn’t a substitute for therapy. If you need support, please reach out to a professional.

The Ones You Didn't Bring UpOnce again, you find yourself begrudgingly letting it go.The 20-minutes-late friend. The cow...
13/09/2026

The Ones You Didn't Bring Up

Once again, you find yourself begrudgingly letting it go.

The 20-minutes-late friend. The coworker who took a little too much credit. The person who said they'd call and didn't.

None of it felt worth mentioning on its own, so you swallowed it, smiled, and moved on.

Here's the thing: small disappointments don't disappear because you didn't name them. They accumulate.

This week, we're noticing them instead of absorbing them.

- What's something small someone didn't follow through on this week that I decided wasn't "a big enough deal" to bring up?

- Where did I call it "being easygoing" when it was really lowered expectations?

- What did I laugh off this week that actually stung more than I showed?

Grab your journal. Get honest. You might be surprised what's been quietly adding up.

These prompts are meant to help you understand yourself a little better; do 1, all, or none.

This content is for educational purposes and isn't a substitute for therapy. If you need support, please reach out to a professional.

Confidence Isn’t Earned Through Age; It’s Unlocked By It
Confidence doesn’t arrive first. It shows up after you stop mea...
13/09/2026

Confidence Isn’t Earned Through Age; It’s Unlocked By It

Confidence doesn’t arrive first. It shows up after you stop measuring yourself against who you used to be.

You are not less than the version of you from ten years ago.

You simply stopped competing with her. And desire, like confidence, was never something to earn back.

It was only ever something to claim.

Confidence Isn't Earned Through Age; It's Unlocked By It�Confidence doesn't come from doing more. It comes from comparin...
13/09/2026

Confidence Isn't Earned Through Age; It's Unlocked By It
�Confidence doesn't come from doing more. It comes from comparing less.

The version of you that used to shrink, apologize, second-guess, she isn't gone because you fixed her.

She's gone because you stopped holding her up against who you are now.

12/09/2026

Going forward on purpose.

There’s no version of your relationship from five years ago that’s waiting to be restored.

That relationship already did its job, it got you here.

The couples who feel stuck aren’t broken.

They’re asking “how do we get back” instead of “who are we now.”

Different question. Different outcome.

There’s no version of you two to get back toYou keep waiting to feel like you did before before the kids, before the rou...
12/09/2026

There’s no version of you two to get back to

You keep waiting to feel like you did before before the kids, before the routines, before comfort quietly took over for curiosity.

Here’s the thing: that version isn’t waiting somewhere to be found again. It already did its job. It got you here.

What keeps you stuck isn’t the change. It’s the question you’re still asking, “how do we get back” instead of “who are we now?”

I want her backAt 40, I looked at myself and felt hollow.Not because anything was wrong. Because I’d spent years trading...
10/09/2026

I want her back

At 40, I looked at myself and felt hollow.

Not because anything was wrong. Because I’d spent years trading small pieces of myself to become what everyone needed.

The wild, adventurous, bold girl I used to be, I don’t even know when she left. I just knew, one day, she was gone.

And I knew I wanted her back.

If any part of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

So many of us are navigating similar paths right now.

House of Her is a space dedicated to finding and allowing her to return.

A 9-month, in-person journey through nine rooms of a woman’s inner world, the parts of you that got quiet along the way, waiting to be met again.

Four women have already found their way back to themselves through it. I’d love for you to be next.

Everything you need, the rooms, the price, how to begin, is right there. Save it.

Doors open October 10. Applications open now.

Spots are limited to 8–12 women.

If this is calling you, don’t wait too long to answer.

Book a discovery call:

https://calendly.com/kintsoutherapy/meet-greet

https://kintsoutherapy.com/pages/house-of-her

When did you last feel like all of you?

08/09/2026

You Didn’t Lose Desire. It Grew Up

Most of what gets called “losing desire” isn’t desire disappearing. It’s someone still measuring today against a want they had years ago, and never updating the measurement.

This is where mindfulness actually earns its place, past the buzzword version of it. Being present doesn’t mean forcing yourself to feel something.

It means noticing what’s actually here, the specific way your partner shows up for you now, the kind of safety that took years to build, without running it through a comparison to what used to be there.

The comparison is the block. Not the desire.Accepting the change isn’t resignation.

It’s what makes room to actually see what’s replaced it, because you can’t recognize something new while you’re still holding up the old version as the standard.

If you’ve been waiting to want the way you used to before you’ll believe anything’s still there, that wait might be the actual block, not your desire.

You Didn't Lose Desire. It Grew UpIn session, I hear some version of this constantly: "I don't want this the way I used ...
08/09/2026

You Didn't Lose Desire. It Grew Up

In session, I hear some version of this constantly: "I don't want this the way I used to, so something must be wrong." Almost every time, the person isn't actually describing an absence.

They're describing a comparison they haven't stopped running. This is where being present matters more than people expect.

Not the wellness-app version of mindfulness, the actual practice of noticing what's happening right now without immediately measuring it against an earlier version of your relationship.

The way your partner remembers what you're going through this week. The ease of not having to perform for each other anymore.

None of that registers if you're still holding it up against a memory from five or fifteen years ago and calling the difference a loss.

Accepting that things have changed isn't giving up on wanting. It's what lets you actually notice what's here instead of grieving what isn't.

You can't see something new while you're still using the old thing as your measuring stick.

If you've been waiting to feel the way you used to before believing anything's still there, I'd gently ask: what would you notice if you stopped waiting for that and looked at what's actually in front of you?

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