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✨ Intuitive Transformational Coaching, Psychic Medium, Artist and Designer. ✨
Authentic living ✨ Crystal Reiki Master and Therapist.

Sam grew up in the UK and has been living in Malta for many years. Her gifts were discovered at a young age, and she now has over 20 years of experience. She works both online Internationally and face to face in Malta offering Psychic Readings, Mediumship, Transformational Life Coaching. Sam also creates Handmade Crystal Jewellery, Metaphysically created to support your energy.

05/10/2026

KNOW YOUR WORTH 🖤

Knowing your worth isn’t ego. 🤯🤌🏼
It’s knowing you don’t have to keep proving it.
Not to friends.
Not to family. Not in relationships. Basically to anyone who repeatedly treats your presence like it’s guaranteed, or even more so doesn’t realize the blessing of your presence. No more waiting around for people to change. Draw the line and hop, skip and jump over it.

Self-worth is recognising when enough is enough. 🙅🏼‍♀️

It’s understanding that forgiveness doesn’t mean unlimited access. ⛔️Compassion doesn’t mean accepting the same behaviour on repeat. 🙄And being spiritual certainly doesn’t mean becoming someone’s emotional punchbag while calling it a lesson from the universe. Hell No.

Sometimes the lesson is simply: stop entertaining the bu****it.

Every connection teaches us something. Some bring support, some bring growth, some bring boundaries… and some arrive as a full-blown spiritual assignment nobody remembers signing up for.🫨

But a lesson doesn’t need to become a lifetime subscription. We don’t have time for that.

You cannot keep accepting repetitive bad behaviour because someone fails to recognise how bloody lucky they are to have you in their life. That’s not ego. That there is self worth. Stop wasting that precious time.

If they continually undervalue your presence, that speaks to their ability to recognise value — not your worth.

Know what you bring. 🙌
Know how deeply you show up. 🖤
Know what you give.
And know when it’s time to stop giving it somewhere it isn’t appreciated… move along…

You can forgive without reopening the door.
Wish them well without inviting them back in.
Release resentment without sacrificing your boundaries.

And please — stop giving PowerPoint presentations on why you deserve basic respect.

No ego.
No revenge.
No dramatic spiritual warfare.

Just self-worth, boundaries and the quiet confidence to understand:

If someone repeatedly fails to appreciate your presence, eventually they get to experience your absence.

Take the lesson.
Bless the chapter.
Turn the bloody page.

SpiritualGrowth

28/09/2026

Being a psychic medium 🔮doesn’t make me stupid, uneducated or incapable of serious business.

I’m educated.🧠 I’m qualified. 🎓I’ve worked professionally in telecoms and finance, with a background in business, marketing, design and strategy.

I had a conventional professional career.

I chose to walk away from it. 🚶🏼‍♀️

Not because I couldn’t succeed in that world — I already had. ☑️

I chose to dedicate my life to the gifts I’ve carried for decades. ✨🪽

I can read energy and read a room.
I can sense spirit and understand strategy.
I can trust intuition and think critically.
I can be mystical and still mean business.

Call it unconventional. Call it “woo-woo.”

Just don’t mistake spiritual for stupid. ✨🤯

I didn’t choose this path because I had nothing else.

I walked away from what I was qualified to do,
to devote my life to what I was born to do.

19/09/2026

I’ve walked with the light,
I’ve danced with the dark,
I’ve sat with my shadows
and learned every mark.
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I’ve stood in the fire,
been cleansed by the rain,
been grounded by earth,
let the wind take my pain.
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I believe in the elements,
the moon and the tide,
in Yin and in Yang —
two truths side by side.
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I believe in the Tao,
in the ebb and the flow,
in knowing when to hold on
and when to let go.
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I don’t twist energy.
I don’t tempt fate.
I don’t summon revenge,
manipulate, or create hate.
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I don’t force a connection.
I don’t bind. I don’t chase.
What belongs in my world
will arrive in its place.
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Because power isn’t control.
And magic isn’t spite.
You don’t conquer the darkness
by pretending you’re light.
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You sit with your shadows.
You call them by name.
You learn what they taught you,
then step from the flame.
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The river keeps running.
The moon pulls the sea.
The wind needs no permission.
The wild simply is free.
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So I honour the darkness.
I honour the light.
I honour the day,
and I honour the night.
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I’ll not bind what must wander,
nor beg what must go.
I’ll not dam the river
to command where it flows.
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Let the fire burn clean.
Let the wild winds blow.
Let the earth hold my roots.
Let the deep waters know.
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I need no control
to stand strong in my soul.
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What is mine will draw near.
What is not, I let go.
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I do not bend the current.
I become the flow. 🖤
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30/08/2026

I’m choosing peace over everything. ✨

There’s something about where I’ve moved to that just vibrates differently. ✨

I can breathe there. My mind quietens. My whole energy shifts.

Beneath the limestone, calcite is woven into the geology — a crystal metaphysically associated with cleansing stagnant energy, clarity, balance and transformation. And scattered across this landscape are ancient temples, built thousands of years ago by people whose connection to the earth, cycles and sacred spaces still feels almost tangible.

Maybe that’s why the energy feels different.🤍

Ancient earth. 🌎 Sacred spaces 🍃. Crystal beneath my feet.

After years of noise, intensity and constantly searching for tiny pockets of tranquillity, I’m no longer searching.

I’m choosing to live in one.

Less chaos. More nature.
Less noise. More presence.
Less surviving. More breathing.

Peace isn’t boring.

Peace is the goal. 🤍

27/08/2026

Change is good… but that doesn’t mean it isn’t scary.

Moving home feels like so much more than packing boxes and changing an address. It’s emotionally letting go of what has been — the memories, the routines, the comfort of what’s familiar, and a chapter of life that existed within those walls.

There’s sadness in that. And apprehension.

But being brave doesn’t mean being fearless. Sometimes bravery is feeling completely overwhelmed by change and choosing to embrace it anyway.

Because change creates space.

Space for different energy.
Different experiences.
Different memories.
A fresh start.

So I’m allowing myself to feel the sadness of letting go while still being excited about what’s coming.

One chapter is closing, another is beginning… and maybe this change is exactly what we need.

Here’s to being brave enough to let go of what has been and open the door — quite literally — to fresh new beginnings. 🤍

22/08/2026

I’m so grateful we made it through the last four years… but I’m realising that surviving and knowing how to live again are two very different things.🎗️🙏🏼

Three years of Covid followed by four years of Harvey’s cancer treatment changed me.

I question everything now. Things that once felt completely normal — shopping, socialising, going out at night, even organising things for the kids — can suddenly feel epic.
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And quietly, through all of it, I was battling my own undiagnosed chronic disease and crippling pain. I barely spoke about it because those years weren’t about me. They were about Harvey surviving.

So I ignored myself.

Now my body has caught up with me, and it’s time to pause and prioritise.

We’re moving. I need something fresh. A home without the memories of where we sat, slept and simply survived.

And friendships? I’m stepping back there too. I’m done always being the one to reach out, organise and hold things together. The real ones will stay. If others disappear when I stop trying, then so be it.

Maybe I’ll never be the Sam I was before.

Maybe I’m not supposed to be.

For now, I’m taking life one day at a time again — learning who I am after survival and finally making some space for me.

21/08/2026

Some bonds are formed in childhood. Others are forged in survival. 🎗️💛
Through Harvey’s chemo journey, Benji and Harvey became each other’s security in a way I don’t think anyone outside of it could fully understand. 🎗️

When they’re together, they don’t sleep without each other. 🛌

Night after night, through fear, uncertainty, hospital stays and a childhood that looked very different to most, there was comfort in simply knowing the other one was there.🌜🌛

Now Harvey has finished treatment, life is slowly moving forward. We’re finding our new normal. But some things haven’t changed. ✨

They still want to sleep beside each other.🤍🖤

Maybe it’s a trauma bond. Maybe it’s security. Maybe after everything they’ve been through, their nervous systems simply know that together means safe.

And honestly? I don’t have the heart to break that bond.
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There will be plenty of time for separate rooms, separate beds, growing up and becoming independent.

For now, if falling asleep beside his brother makes Harvey feel safe — and if Benji still wants to be that safe place for him — I’m going to let them.

Because not every part of surviving something needs to be “fixed.”

Sometimes love adapts to trauma in the most beautiful, quiet little ways.

And sometimes healing looks like two brothers, fast asleep beside each other, knowing without saying a word:

I’m here. You’re safe. We made it. 🤍

19/08/2026

A little update from me… 🤍

I’m really not well at the moment, and my body has made it very clear that I need to stop, rest and listen.

So for now, I’m stepping back from messages and work while I focus on getting myself feeling better.

If you’re waiting for a reply from me, please know I haven’t forgotten you. I’ve seen your messages, and I will revert to everyone as soon as I’m well enough.

Sometimes everything else simply has to wait. Right now, my health needs to come first.

Thank you for your patience, understanding and love. 🤍

08/08/2026

🦁The Lionsgate Portal isn’t magic ✨. It won’t suddenly hand you the life you’ve been wishing for.

What it can be is a moment to pause and ask yourself one question:

Am I living as my true self, or as the version of me that keeps everyone else comfortable?

Alignment isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about stripping away everything that was never truly you. The masks. The fear. The people-pleasing. The stories you’ve outgrown.

Manifestation begins there.

Not with forcing.
Not with chasing.
But with becoming so authentic that your actions, your energy, and your choices finally move in the same direction.

The universe doesn’t respond to the person you’re pretending to be. It responds to the truth of who you are.

So if the Lionsgate Portal means anything to you, let it be this:

Choose yourself.
Trust your intuition.
Release what no longer fits.
And step fully into the life that already knows your name.

The most powerful thing you can manifest isn’t a new reality.

It’s the courage to finally become the person you were always meant to be.

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07/08/2026

✨Life keeps trying to convince us that we have to choose.
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🤍Light or dark🖤.
😁Joy or grief😭.
🤞🏼Hope or fear 😱.

But nature🌳 has never worked that way.

You cannot have sunrise 🌅 without night 🌌. You cannot appreciate peace ☮️ without first knowing chaos 🌋. Even our own shadows exist because there is light. 💡

The goal isn’t to eliminate the darkness. It’s to stop fearing it.
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Every challenge shapes us. Every loss teaches us. Every difficult chapter makes the lighter moments feel that much more extraordinary.
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Life is balance.☯️
Light and dark.
Strength and vulnerability.
Positive and negative.

Neither is the enemy. Together, they create the whole picture.

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