26/09/2026
This is how my little girl falls asleep at night, clutching my hand.
My eldest chose to move into her own room when she was 12. My son is who is 11 this year says he might be ready next year. The funny thing is, I think I’ll miss their company more than they’ll miss mine. I’ll miss seeing their faces first thing in the morning, and hearing the occasional snore or sleepy conversation in the night.
Our children have always had their own beds beside ours. When they were younger, we took care to make their sleep space safe for their age. As a paediatrician, I know how important safe sleep is, especially for babies.
Children grow into independence at different times. Some are ready for their own room early; others take longer.
There’s no prize for getting there first.
What matters is a safe arrangement that lets everyone in the family rest well. For now, I’m happy to hold her hand a little longer.