24/07/2026
Good evening mee kapadhi please hide my identity
I'm a 33 year old woman and my baby daddy is 37 . We have 2 kids together one is 12 years and a baby of 4 month,This man I have been dating him but when I got pregnant with our last born when I was about to give birth he started cheating on me with a 48yrs old woman from otavi💔
I after I gave birth and came to stay home for 4month while the baby is growing ngoo but while I'm home he's with her,the bad part is that we were supposed to get married last month and up to now I have the rings and foods plus our clothes😭
One day I decided to go visit him as usual with the baby since omasiku gohango are near , I didn't find him at his place,and the people told me they saw him tapakele oondhopi at his woman's house, I ask the lady to direct me to that house, than I went there with the baby,but I didn't found them there k**a they went to buy osheelelwa☺️
I came back to his place,after 40 minutes,I saw a woman coming apparently she's looking for me, I told her it's me, than she goes what do u want from my fiance💁♀️ and she continues saying that she will make sure I won't get married to him , I will make sure his mine ngee kushikukwatako alumentu ouna okunya she started pointing fingers on my forehead😢
I told her inohindandje meme if that man is meant for me he will come back if not it is well . She pushed us away and went in the man's room since it was open,she took his trunky and vest and everything was dirty and she said I'm done, again took the soap and cooking oil plus salt mix them together and took it along than she left 😨
Just after 2 hours the guy came insulting me and asking me who are you ? What do u want here , those kids are not mine , I don't have feelings for u anymore. Then he pushed me I felt on the sofa but got hurt mesipa lyombuda. I took the baby and went to hike to go back home after when I got home I told my mother what happened than she said I should pray🙏
The next day he called me asking me where I was,then I told him I'm home , then he said ok I,m on my way ,he came at our house to apologize he said please forgive me my wife to be only few days to our wedding I know I cheated on you but I don't love her but she's forcing me to marry her but my family knows u and she's not known by any infact me and her we only dated for 4month🙆
I told him I'll leave it in God's hands but I'm not feeling well I need to be taken to the hospital than he said let me take u when I went there the blood is very high and doctor said okaana nakatoye it will affect the baby👶
I came home the same day and he slept at my house while we were sleeping, I felt my butts were wet and I wake up and called his name he wakes up and goes like "onda stamena" but the bed was not wet only his buts and front,omasita tage ya giidhenge komatako gandje but not the bed 😢
From there he wakes up and told me I'm going back n I asked him otoyi peni po 5 than he said I'm sorry baby n I asked sorry for what again then he left 😞
I tried calling him and he puts me on block list and he ana k**a went to his lady ! The next day his mom called me taligola saying otja thika okwali emudhengela kutya we are getting married in otavi,I told the mother no, I'm not aware of this,then the mom called him to ask and he cut her off😚
Now our date of wedding has reached and people started contributing like foods and gifts and he's phone is off. My phone showed that his on air than I called him where are you my love 1more day to our wedding and you're not here💁♀️he answered I'm sorry nghelo but I don't have feelings anymore I'm getting married to her , and about our kids me and my wife to be ill take care
On his background I can hear her saying shilombwela sh*tukale kokule baby ! I only said ok and block him . The day has passed my marriage was taken away by another woman so his family told him us we are not going to your wedding with your new lady u meet in 4month go ahead. None of his family members was there so as I'm talking now they got married😭
I decided to go to church one day than the pastor pointed me out of all the people madam where is your husband, his laughing and I told him I don't know than he said where is your left shoe , I don't know pastor, than he said your shoes was taken in Angola plus your husband and their marriage won't last . He prayed for me and ask me to go back for prayers this week Saturday if I manage with transport🥰
Now I'm always seeing this lady standing next to me giving me blood to drink and dissappear. And everytime I'm sleeping I'm always dreaming of my baby daddy coming to me telling me he miss his kids and dissappear.
Now he left me with our fist born its a boy 12 years in grade 6 and the small 4month turning 5 I have to buy milk and clothes for all and yet I'm still in search of work for now I only train people on how to make perfumes and others to help myself and kids I'm even planning on hosting a training in whk if I received more clients . Im healing and healing but not easy and all is on my shoulders and I'm ashamed but not infront😭
Please let us give our sister some words of encouragement that allows her to go through this difficult time 😢
