Esther B. Iyeteku

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26/05/2018

*Relationship Gist*

A BROKEN ENGAGEMENT IS Better Than DIVORCE

Are you in a relationship or about to marry?. Please be sure you have made the right choice. Marriage is a Journey of no return according to God standard.. The choice you make has a way of fulfilling this purpose. .

I admonish the singles to watch? Pray and be at alert because marriage is a serious issue and should be taken seriously.

Many couples are out for their marriages today because what they had in mind was not what they saw.. or that they where actually blind to the realities while they where courting. Due to their careless attitude, they have contributed to the headaches the institution is experiencing today.

Marriage is not a contract. It is the union of two, till death.. choose who you can live with forever. The period of courting or dating is enough to make a positive life time decisions.

Please make your marriage meaningful. Lay a good foundation for your future home. The foundation start from the choice you make..and not when you say "l Do".

If you chose a wrong person , you will be on for it. He/she will surely ruin your home. Do not marry by pity or by management. When courting and your partner is always demanding, notwithstanding whether you have or not. If you failed to meet his/her demand it become issues. Hmmm, that is danger signal.

For the ladies, if the man is always beating or attempts beating you, that is danger signal.

If the person is a commander in chief, autocratic, dictator and always take decision alone, another danger signal.

Ensure that whatever your experiences are during courtship are acceptable by you . If you close your eyes and enter into marriage with all the dislikes and negativity especially, you have no reason to complain when the reality showed up.

You both may not be compatible. Why not wait for your compatability. Let us help to build or improve the marriage institution by making the right choice. Especially the ladies , we are on the receiving end. We suffer more when the undesirable happened. Let us be careful. Look before you leep.. If your marriage does not work out well, it becomes a burden to you and your family. To be fore warned is to be fore harmed.

The Lord will direct your part. (Psalm 119 : 105.

23/05/2018

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23/05/2018

*Marriage Gist*

OPENNESS

A vital key to sustain marriage.
If couples are open to one another, then trust will exist in the home. And every internal and external gossip will be out of the way. It brings about bonding and blending.

Openness should not start when you are already married. It should start when you have agreed to marry or during courtship.

Ensure that you let out the cat from the bag. Tell him/her every hidden thing about you. It is better you say it before marriage than getting to know about it after the wedding. from a third party.

If it is God and Love that brought you together, he or she will still Love you in any circumstances you are. That will make the love to increase. And would have concluded in the heart that if you could trust to this extend and open up, it means that there is nothing you will hide from him/her when you eventually get married.

Concealed information has greatly ruined the home of young couples when it was eventually discovered.

Note that there is nothing hidden that can not be revealed. At the appointed time it will come out.

Do not trick someone into marriage or marriage by trick. It will surely boomerang.

The devil is looking for homes to destroy. He knows you very well, he will even tell you not to say it. When everything is rosy , he will use the concealed information ruin your home.

Brethren, be opened be honest and transparent. Let your yes be yes and your no be no. Whatever you have done at the time of ignorance God over look. Old things has passed away and all things have become new.

Put an end to pretence, lies , deceit etc so that God can direct and trance form your home to his standard to fulfill destinies.

I decree that every trap the devil is setting or has set to destroy your marriage or relationship will be scattered in Jesus name.

14/05/2018

*Relationship Gist*

WATCH OUT FOR THE CHARACTER

If you are prepared to get married watch out for a sustainable character.
Character is something that should not be over looked in a relationship.
This is because no matter how blissful you wedding is and how wealthy your spouse is, and how beautiful and handsome you are, the only thing that will sustain your home is how good your character is.
It takes character to sustain whatever you have attained in life , your marriage inclusive.
Remember that he or she that you proposed to marry is coming from a different background.
Ensure that his or her attitude is something you can cope with before you say "l do". The good book says ; " when the foundation is being destroyed, what can the righteous do."
Note that a broken engagement is better than divorce. Lay a good foundation for your future home that will stand the test of time.

My prayer for the single is that God will give you direction. You will not miss it in the place of choice. The Lord will give you your flesh and bone in Jesus name.

13/05/2018

Happy Mother's Day

I am using this medium to congratulate all mothers and to wish them a happy and joyous mothers Day.

I will also want all mothers to NOTE the following :

1; To be a successful mother we should be ready to pay the price.
2; we should be ready to go the miles according to rules.
3; There is a day of accountability and God will ask us.
4; As a mother our role in the life of our children is very important.
5; God knows that these responsibilities are enormous, so He has equipt us with every thing we need to succeed in this assignment.
6; You are made to add value to the lives of your children and husband and the society at large.
7; Lastly, should any woman take her place as a mother and wife in any home, certainly , that home becomes God's perfect role model.

Today, l decree into our lives as virtuous women, that our homes will be a role model. Shame and disgrace will not be named in our homes and we will not disappoint God in this assignment in Jesus name.
Once again happy Mothers Day.

11/05/2018

There is no doubt that God Himself instituted marriage. Despite the fact that man is failing to executes marriage in line with God's plan and purpose, God's standard on marriage issues still stands and can not be compromised. God cannot lower His standard for any reason. It is either we get it right and fulfil purpose or we get it wrong and face the consequences..

08/05/2018

Marriage is indisputably regarded as not just the oldest institution on earth but of all the institutions, the only one established by the Almighty God. Therefore one would expect it to be the most successful and actually serve as a model for others to emulate. However the empirical evidence seen today in every type and form of marriage and across all cultures of the world show that this institution has not only become decadent but is failing miserably.

Marriage counsellor