My Family & I, Umtc quarters, Ilorin (2026)

08/04/2026

Theme: There (3) Stages of Christian Family Life.
Topic:: Four Additional Steps for Successful Adult Stage.
Texts: Ecclesiastes 3 : 1, 11b, and Revelation 22:7 Refers;
There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven: He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; "Behold I am coming soon! Blessed is he who keeps the Words of the prophecy in this Book."
This texts emphasis 'a time for everything on earth, and the soon coming of the LORD JESUS CHRIST to Rapture EVERYONE that believed in the work of Salvation.

Because of this Bible Truth, My Family and I took Three steps in the last Series, and Four in this concluding edition to make Seven steps (Other Persons or Families may advance less or more than Seven), but we took Seven for its completeness.
These additional Four Steps refers;

4. We fixed our focus on heaven and intentionally live each day with eternity in mind.
5. This is a time to care more deeply for both our physical and spiritual children, trusting God in His kindness to lead our entire household into His Kingdom.
6. We take time to reflect on our past and make the necessary changes for a better future.
7. Jesus Christ’s second coming is not to die again for sinners, but to take believers—those who trust in His sacrifice—into eternity, according to God’s Word.
In summary, my wife and I have embraced these principles:
1. To stay mindful of the second coming of Jesus Christ.
2. To remain grateful to God and appreciative of our marriage.
3. To shift our focus from worldly possessions to godly values.
4. To keep our eyes on heaven and live with eternity in view.
5. To care intentionally for our physical and spiritual children.
6. To create time for reflection and rest.
7. To hold firmly to the certainty of Christ’s return.
My prayer for my Household and for everyone reading our testimonies is to meet at the Feet of our LORD JESUS CHRIST on that Day? Looking forward to meet you in eternity. The General conclusion of this THEME next edition.
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23/03/2026

Theme: Three (3) Stages of Christian Family Life.
Topic: Adult Stage, From 41st Year Till Death in CHRIST JESUS.
Text : Ecclesiastes 3: 1, 4a, 11, & 17, Refers;

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven.... and a time to laugh, ... He has also set eternity in the hearts of men;... I thought in my heart, "GOD will bring to judgement both the righteous and the wicked, for there will be a time for every activity, a time for every deed.

According to the text, the word “every” is very important in everything we do in life. Before taking any action, we should think about whether it has heaven’s approval and true value.
There are seven (7) key areas of this “every” that my wife and I have identified. Due to limited space, we will share three (3) for now and present the rest in the final edition.
1. Gratitude to God and Celebrating Yourself
Reaching the later stage of your marital journey (41 years and beyond) is a major milestone. It calls for deep gratitude to God Almighty. You are not better than those who never got married or those whose marriages ended early.
At the same time, take a moment to celebrate yourself. You have lived out the experience described in Genesis 1:28a and 2:18, 23–25 within your lifetime.
2. Living with Awareness Before Christ’s Return
The book of Ecclesiastes speaks about “every deed,” reminding us to be intentional. Before doing anything, ask yourself: “Will this be approved in heaven?”
This mindset helps us seek God’s approval in all our actions.
3. Shifting Focus from Worldly to Eternal Things
At this stage of your marital journey, your focus should move away from worldly pursuits to eternal, heavenly values. Earthly things will pass away, but God’s Word remains forever.
The remaining points till next edition. Meet you there again please.
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09/03/2026

Theme: Three(3) Stages of Christian Family Life.
Topic: At Our 40th Wedding Anniversary.
Reflection on Psalm 90:12
Psalm 90:12 reminds us to ask God to “teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” This passage encourages us to live our lives with awareness, purpose, and wisdom.
There is also a common saying: “A fool at forty is a fool forever.” In other words, by that stage in life a person is expected to have gained maturity and wisdom.
As my wife and I reflected on this scripture and the saying, we decided—by the grace of God—to add three more spiritual practices to the four principles we were already living by, making them seven in total.
1. To keep our focus on the Lord God Almighty in everything we do.
This helps us remain steadfast so that whenever the enemy tries to discourage or tempt us, through Christ’s enabling grace we can overcome and continue moving forward in our life journey.
2. To remain mindful of eternity with the Lord.
Because of the importance of eternal life with God, we prayed this prayer:
“Lord, if You ever see that we are about to deny Jesus Christ, please call us home before that day comes, because You know everything about each of us.”
3. To continually look up to Jesus whenever our human weaknesses try to pull us down.
By holding firmly to God’s Word, we find strength and restoration.
By God’s grace, these resolutions were renewed and reaffirmed during the celebration of our 40th wedding anniversary.
Meet You in our next episode and stay blessed in CHRIST JESUS.
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21/02/2026

Theme: Three (3) Stages of Christian Family Life.
Topic: Maturation: Between 13th to 40Years.
Text: Ecclesiastes 3: 1, 2b, 3b, 5a, and 6a refers;
There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven,.... a time to plant and a time uproot,.... and a time to build,.... a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them.

A Time to Build
The Scripture reminds us that there is a time to build. In the journey of marriage, there comes a season of maturity — a season not just to survive, but to intentionally build. At this stage, the foundation has been laid, storms have been weathered, lessons have been learned, and love has been refined. Now is the time to build a legacy — a family structure that every member can proudly identify with.
This phase of marriage should radiate stability, peace, joy, and fulfillment. Yet, it is also one of the most strategic stages of the union.
First, the children raised within the home should now reflect the values, discipline, and godly principles that were carefully planted over the years. They become living testimonies of the family’s convictions and culture.
Second, each partner should be confidently walking in purpose — aligning career, calling, and daily living with God’s divine expectations. This is a season of impact, influence, and meaningful contribution.
Third, it is often a time when a couple settles fully into their own established home — building not just a physical house, but a sanctuary of love, security, and generational blessing. While circumstances may differ, the vision remains one of stability and ownership.
Fourth, the children whom God has graciously blessed the union with should ideally be educated, grounded, and beginning to build their own families. This brings fulfillment — seeing seeds sown over decades now flourishing.
Yet even at this stage, vigilance remains necessary. Challenges may still arise. Temptations may attempt to resurface. But a couple determined to stand firmly on God’s Word will not be shaken. The union must be guarded intentionally, prayerfully, and faithfully.
Above all, wisdom is essential. Every strong marriage benefits from godly counsel. Having a trusted mentor or spiritually mature family friend provides guidance, accountability, and balanced perspective — strengthening the relationship both physically and spiritually.
This is not just a stage of marriage.
It is a season of legacy.
A season of strength.
A season of purposeful building.
This was exactly what My Wife and I did by GOD'S grace. I will tell You Two(2) or more things we did to overcome the enemys schemes when we did our 40th Wedding anniversary.

Until next edition, meet You then!
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04/02/2026

Theme: Three (3) Stages of Christian Family Life.
Topic: Between the 1st 12 Years of the Union, Part 11.
Text: Ecclesiastes 3: 1, 3b refers;
I promised to share with You in SUMMARY how My Wife and I scaled through the 1st 12Years of our Marital journey;

1. We came together in marriage first as believers—Christians in Christ Jesus—before standing at the marriage altar.
2. Though we had our human flaws, we trusted fully in Christ’s finished work for our salvation and committed ourselves to obeying biblical principles for our union, with God as our helper.
3. We also resolved to remain firmly united, choosing to communicate, pray, and work through our differences no matter what—especially for the sake of our children. Praise God.

We are available to help
1. If Your marriage is between 1st to 12 Years and will like to ask questions, then call any of the phone numbers below
2. Others who are trusting GOD to marry soon, or are already in their marital Union who also want to share their experiences to help encourage others.
3. Till I come your way again, stay blessed in JESUS.

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20/01/2026

Theme: Three (3) Stages of Christian Family Life.
Topic: Affirmation or Discovery
Text: Ecclesiastes 3 : 1-17

1. Affirmation or Discovery Stage: Between the 1st to 12 Years.
2. Maturation Stage:Between 13th to 40Years.
3. Adult: From 41st Year till death in Christ Jesus

Just as my family, DaviZabeth, is unique, every family in the universe is uniquely created by God to serve a distinct purpose in the world. Although families may differ in structure, perspective or expression, but when both sides are guided by the Holy Spirit, they will ultimately arrive at the same truth and purpose.

Ecclesiastes 3:1 and 3b reminds us that there is a right time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven—a time to tear down and a time to build.
You should recognize that God has helped you enter into marriage with your partner, and you should be ready to fully enjoy the journey in all its dimensions. However, a partner who is still uncertain about themselves or the marriage may find themselves at a crossroads and might consider taking a break—or even walking away. This, however, is not God’s plan for marriage.
Secondly, there is affirmation. The person who understands God’s purpose and biblical foundation for marriage before entering into it is more likely to remain committed. Those who lack this understanding often respond differently when challenges arise.
Furthermore, there must be discovery. In marriage, there should no longer be personal secrets, only shared ones. You and your partner are now open to each other—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. The two have become one. Therefore, your possessions, careers, responsibilities, and challenges are now shared commitments, to be faced together until death parts you.
We will conclude this section in the next edition, where I will share how we crossed into the next level of our marital journey. I look forward to meeting you there.

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01/01/2026

It's a new season for us all. HAPPY NEW YEAR

11/10/2024

Theme: Meet Judas Iscariot.
Topic: Judas Iscariot's Disposal From the Beginning.
Texts: Matthew 10:4--5, and Luke 22: 1--6.

Read the Texts.
Matthew 10: 4--5 refers;
Simon the Zealot and Judas Iscariot, who betrayed him. 5 These twelve Jesus sent out with the following instructions: "Do not go among the Gentiles or enter any town of the Samaritans, ..."

Luke 22: 1-6 refers;
1 Now the Festival of Unleavened Bread, called the Passover, was approaching, 2 and the Chief Priests and the teachers of the law were looking for some way to get rid of Jesus, for they were afraid of the people. 3 Then Satan entered Judas, called Iscariot, one of the Twelve. 4 And Judas went to the Chief Priests and the Officers of the temple guard and discussed with them how he might betray Jesus. 5 They were delighted and agreed to give him money. 6 He consented, and watched for an opportunity to hand Jesus over to them when no crowd was present.

Introduction.
It is expedient to check the meaning of Judas Iscariot before studying the texts already quoted, and see his disposition thereafter.
Judas epithet "Iscariot" distinguishes him from the other people's name, meaning the man from Kerioth, this implies that Judas was one of the dagger men, that is the Zealots who favoured armed rebellion against Romans.

Studious Study of Judas Iscariot, One(1).
1. Matthew 10: 4--5.
Read and meditate on these Two Verses already quoted, and study in view of the context of the whole chapter Ten(10). Also notice the verses explained, that Jesus chose Judas to be among his twelve disciples, so that they continue his mission to the world after his exit. But this introductory phase of Judas, Co-labourer with the rest eleven disciples shows he will "betray Jesus. Verses 5 - 42 spelt out their first assignment, to the lost sheep of Israel. I am sure they were successful on THIS their first assignment from Jesus!
2. Luke 22: 1-6.
This 2nd Text shall studiously check Apostle Judas' role in his day. Consider that I earlier noted how the 12 disciples were very successful in their first assignment. But what happened to Judas between that first, subsequent ones are written for us in the Gospels, and this particular one almost at the climax of Judas Apostleship shows what he initially, quietly purposed to do in the beginning of his lifetime, "to betray Jesus" his Master.
Therefore, My Family and I at this introductory point of Judas life, to note that whosoever occupies the Treasury in particular and any other position at various congregations, as well as in the Society at large should guide, guard, and watch their thoughts, because the MATTERS that creeps in the heart at THIS particular phase of the Ministry WILL eventually leads one to Eternity.
If you are blessed by this piece, send it to the ones you love. Many thanks for the reading, until next edition when we come Your way. Bye!
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04/10/2024

Theme: Meet Judas Iscariot.
Texts: Matthew 10:4-5, & Luke 22: 1-6.
Introduction:
Judas Iscariot was negatively famous amongst the Twelve Disciples chosen by Christ Jesus because he orchestrated his role divinely in fulfilment of GOD'S plan for Jesus's first advent to the world. We shall study Judas's ministry variously trusting the Holy Spirit to direct us moment by moment as God Himself will dim fit, amen.
This study shall not follow the usual step, but as the Spirit shall directs.
Therefore we are believing you, the reader(s) to let us have/hear your feedback on the study as we proceed.
MEET APOSTLE JUDAS ISCARIOT.
My Family and I Ministry has expanded with additional one, the Ministry to Treasurers, and other Personalities called to Serve in our different Churches either in Cash or Kind. This call came as a result of my personal experiences having held such position(s) few decade(s) in the past to the Glory of GOD.
My attention was drown to Apostle Judas Iscariot's Ministry while he had the privilege given to him by Our LORD and SAVIOUR Jesus Christ Himself to be the Treasurer during the period of His earthly Ministry. We want to know what he did with that Golden opportunity of his lifetime. At this point, I would like to appreciates the Ministry of Daddy (PhiloMosi) through the DAILY SUCCOUR (because in one of the daily study guides received on the 27th March 2024, and at about 5.17am, God opened my eyes to see Judas' role, hence the call to warn all who will receive the grace to serve in this capacity!
The next edition(s) shall be studies of Apostle Judas Iscariot's Ministry. Hope to have you in the proposed studies. Contact with us on these numbers;
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