15/08/2026
Today's family discuss
Good morning sir, I got married to my high school lover,though we both went to different universities and graduated at different times, Providence still brought us together.
What I enjoyed most in my marriage is the love that my mother in-law has for me,she loved me to the extent that whenever I reported my husband to her, she will practically beat him up, when I experienced this once, I stopped reporting him to her.
However, I usually threatened him that I will report him so that he can stop hurting me. My husband love, respect and fear his mother to the highest level. He wasn't happy that the woman loved me that much, but he can't do anything.
I never lacked anything, my mother in-law didn't allow me to know prices of baby cares whenever I give birth, she will leave her shop to come and cater for me. Then she secured a job for me with One of her friends that owns a company.
When it became obvious that I couldn't combine paid employment with taking care of children, she advised that I come to join her in her shop, and she allowed me to handle One of her shops.
By the way my mother in-law sells clothes and she has three big shops, after I have stayed with her for over a year in the shop, she just told me to manage one of other two shops and we get on very well. I never cheated her and she too never take undue advantage of me.
Then all of a sudden, my mother in-law just fell ill and we began to take her to hospitals, when she wasn't getting well, I left the shop for one of her workers and stayed permanently with her. By this time my husband has started showing me shege, but I was too busy with mummy to even complain.
Then, after three years of sickness, when two of mummy's shops have been closed due to lack of funds, she eventually died. Oh My goodness!! That was the worst time of my life. My greatest supporter was gone.
We buried her,after which my husband began to seriously brutalized me, he will beat me and also carry women anyhow.
Before mummy died she instructed me to take charge of her shop and I wanted to go and do the needful when I saw my husband came there with another woman to come and handle the shop .
I have gotten experience and some of mummy's money was still with me, I know where mummy buys goods from and almost all our customers knows me personally, when my husband refused for me to handle mummy's shop and he also doesn't take good care of me and the children again after mummy's death, I decided to open my own shop independently and start the business.
I got a shop without his knowledge, went to buy goods there,then I told him that I've just gotten a shop and I want to start doing my business. My husband told me that I should pick either the business or our marriage, that if I start that shop I should consider the marriage over. What do you think sir?
Me: how many children do you have?
She: we have two children
Me: Are they going to school?
She: Yes
Me: who is paying their school fees
She: My husband
Me: Does he give you money for upkeep?
She: No,he will just give me money whenever he wants to eat something special.
Me: what kind of job does he do?
She: he is into aluminum,he collect contracts for houses.
Me: The woman he brought, was he married to her?
She: No, but she's his girlfriend,he stays most times with her.
Me: how do you know that?
She: he told me.
Okay friends, here we go again, let's do justice to this without going against the rules, don't cuss, don't curse, don't use foul words. Just proffer solution or waka pass.
