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Real love should not be forced....It has to be voluntary.
17/10/2021

Real love should not be forced....
It has to be voluntary.

10/01/2021

There is no way to really control how people think about you.

But you can control the way you react to what they say or do to you.

In as much as you try to be good, give value, help others, there are people who are there to talk you down, say trash and make you feel discouraged.

Don't feel bad, it's bound to happen.

I used to crawl into my shell once I receive one bad comment or see a post talking against what i do.

It would affect me for days and i would hardly post or respond to people.

But with time i got to learn how to be strong, tolerant and self confident.

Understand that everyone can definitely not say good things about you all the time.

Some are waiting for a loop hole, to trash you and rain abuses.

Be strong and be grateful to those who are there to encourage you.

The ones who need your impact are out there, don't leave them hanging because of what some people say or do to you.

Happy Sunday.

LadyG

How i look at those who are scared of trying.We know 2020 has been one hell of a year but the Question is, HOW MANY THIN...
28/11/2020

How i look at those who are scared of trying.

We know 2020 has been one hell of a year but the Question is, HOW MANY THINGS HAVE YOU TRIED?

Surprisingly, despite the setbacks faced this year, people have been greatly blessed.

People have tried and failed, some have tried and succeeded.

If you are reading this, you don't have to be scared.

Failure or success, it is recorded that you tried.

Remember the saying, "There is no harm in trying".

It's better you try and fail, than not to try at all.

Whatever it is, JUST TRY!

Udoh Mfon

30/10/2020

How do you know you are ready for marriage??

08/09/2020

I was listening to a message today and i marvelled at why what works for A might not work for B.

Because we all have different callings, assignment and graces.

There are some people because of their Assignment, they can't enter a Relationship twice.....

Let me use my personal experience to explain this, but note this does not mean everyone must follow this pattern.

I am the first and the only my fiancé has been in a Relationship with.

Right from the beginning of his walk with God, he never had time for ladies, i mean he is an anointed minister and always put his all into the ministry...

So he had no time for trial and error, apart from that the calling he has does give him the opportunity to be fooled up and down all in the name of love.

To this kind of person once they see their spouse, at first glance they would know she/he is the one.

There is a kind of connection that develops in your spirit that would make you uncomfortable, i mean even if you have never noticed anyone before, you have no choice than to notice this one because it would feel different and unique.

Kai!

But note in this kind of situation, God must have finished working on this person and is sure you are prepared before he ochestrates your meeting.

Why this happens is because there is so much destiny that you carry, i mean the nature of your future is unique, the children you are going to give birth has been divinely arranged, your walk together in marriage and in Purpose has been ochestrated and you can miss out of this by being with the wrong person.

I mean choosing the wrong person can shift you totally from the course.

It is no wonder why this kind of persons have self control, because it is necessary to keep them fixed on the will of God.

As Singles let's desire and develop ourselves to be spiritually inclined, it will save you from a lot of emotional stress and wrong Relationships.

Say God make me spiritually sensitive to know my spouse.

© Glory Ikechukwu

One of the mistakes that limits us in our Relationships is not understanding the act of love, starting from Self love to...
10/08/2020

One of the mistakes that limits us in our Relationships is not understanding the act of love, starting from Self love to knowing the right way to love your partner.

If people can't say they can see it that you truly love your spouse based on your actions and how you treat them, then something is wrong.

If people can't actually admire and choose your relationship to be their model, because of the act of true love they see between both of you, then you should recheck if you both truly love yourselves.

If you can't bodly say you love them and mean it, then i wonder what you both are doing.

Sometimes ignorance about this thing called love leads us to not being able to sincerely profess and show love without struggling to love them and make them love you the way you want to be loved.

It is beyond, i love you, you must have heard that a thousand thousand times, but yet you still don't understand what it takes to love yourself, talk more of loving another.

You try your best based on how you understand love, but yet your partner complain and doubt that you love them, because you are not doing it right, because you are not loving them the way they want to be loved.

It's no lie, that ladies crave for attention and sometimes equate it to love, but yet actions and attention that comes from one who doesn't understands love, hasn't experienced loving his/herself, God, family members and also hasn't discovered the way their partner want to be loved, is a futile effort.

Sometimes some people are actually obsessed with a person and mistake it to be love, what about lust and infatuation......True Love is deep and it takes only the deep and those who understands what it takes to experience and show it.

Join me in this awesome expository class on The Act of Loving your Spouse.

I'll be teaching with my life experience, likewise well research studies, relationships and also revelations from the secret place.

interested?

When two people are so consumed with themselves they don't get anywhere. It's like a parallel line heading nowhere. But ...
26/07/2020

When two people are so consumed with themselves they don't get anywhere. It's like a parallel line heading nowhere.

But when you look up to God, it's like a triangle. You, your partner and God.

Guess who is at the top of the traingle? GOD!
What happens when both of you at the side move up to draw strength from God?

You get to the peak, both of you become closer as you move up, you grow higher too and draw strength from each other.

The triangle rotates, No third party involved.

Did you get the illustration?

You can spend years being with a good woman or man but never fully choose them.You know you want to be with this person,...
26/06/2020

You can spend years being with a good woman or man but never fully choose them.

You know you want to be with this person, yeah he/she is everything to you want. You love this person when you first met or let's say the first few years.

Unfortunately this happens to many young couples, your ignorance of how to express love and maybe too quickly will create stressful challenges in your Romantic Relationship (courtship or marriage)

Before you know it you might find yourself getting tired of your partner, the feeling of finding it hard to love them or thinking if there was an easier to love them or someone else that could love you better sets in.

As months goes by, you begin to choose your partner less and less. Divorce or break up doesn't just happen in a day but it's a gradual process.

You stay with the person but you have stopped choosing them daily.

Choosing your partner daily would mean focusing everyday on the gifts this person is bringing into your life that you could be grateful for e.g the laughter, companionship, value, smile, care etc.

But at the point of not choosing your partner daily, you'll find it impossible to see anything wonderful about them, because you are focused on the anger, insecurities, demands and other aspect of their personality that's not so good to you.

The moment you focus on his or her worst, the more you will see it and the more you will give or show that person your own worst behaviour.

Naturally this will only magnify the distance in your Romantic Relationship.

Funny enough, the other partner might be fighting hard to make you choose him or her but you can't make a person choose you, not even when they love you.

You make your partner feel you're not choosing them in your words and your actions and before you know it they get scared you would abandon them or you don't love them anymore.

Stop focusing more on what bothers you about your partner than adoring him or her.

Don't let your intimacy wither away because of not choosing your partner every day.

It's torture for you to love and be with a person and not choose them.

If you're in a Romantic Relationship (Courtship or marriage) ask yourself this question-

Am I choosing my partner daily and why am I choosing my partner today?

If you can't find a satisfying answer, dig deep and ask yourself again the following day.

I understand we all have disconnected days but if they become too much and you cannot just connect with why you are choosing your partner, and your courtship (note I didn't say marriage) is filled with stress and emptiness, let them go.

For marriage you just have to try harder and seek the help of a counselor or go for therapy.

In a case of Toxicity or Violence or Physical Abuse, don't even think about it, RUN.

Your loved one deserves to be enthusiastically choosen everyday.
You do too.
Choose wisely.

© Glory Ikechukwu
June 2020

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02/06/2020

Happy New Month Family....

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