Relationship / Marriage Coach

23/12/2025

“I still love him… but I don’t feel in love anymore.”
These words are more common than we admit, and they often come with guilt and confusion.

Week 1 of our new series, “Beyond Feelings: A Call Back to Biblical Love”, is live on the blog.

We explore what the Bible really teaches about love beyond feelings, beyond culture, and beyond convenience.
Come reflect, repent, and let God redefine love in your relationship.

Read the full post here →https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2896364_beyond-feelings-a-call-back-to-biblical-love

06/09/2025

Sometimes it’s not another person… it’s the phone that’s stealing intimacy in marriages and relationships.
Your spouse shouldn’t have to compete with your screen for attention.
Choose love over scrolling, your marriage is worth it.
What’s one step you can take TODAY to give your partner more attention than your phone? Drop it in the comments ⬇️

19/08/2025

Rushing Into Marriage?
Marriage isn’t a race. Jumping in too fast can leave emotional wounds, unresolved issues, and mismatched expectations.
Proverbs 21:5:
“The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.”
Take time to:
Pray for clarity
Build trust & friendship
Heal from past wounds
Align values & goals
A strong, godly marriage starts before the wedding, in preparation and intentional love.
Have you ever felt rushed in love? Share below!

05/08/2025

Marriage isn’t just a beautiful day; it’s a lifelong covenant. And the truth is… whatever issues exist in the relationship before marriage will only grow stronger after.
A God-ordained relationship doesn’t look right, it bears fruit: peace, respect, forgiveness, and a mutual pursuit of Christ.

So before you say “I do,” ask yourself:
Does this relationship bring me closer to God or pull me away?

If it’s not rooted in Christ, the foundation will always crack.
Wait for the love that grows you spiritually and keeps God at the center.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” – Psalm 127:1

18/07/2025

Marriage is a covenant, not a convenience.
You don’t walk away because it “feels off.” You press in.
Whether dating or married, don’t normalize emotional distance.
Ask the Holy Spirit to break walls and restore warmth.

15/07/2025

When Love Grows… But Not Together: Facing Spiritual Mismatch in Christian Relationships

“I feel like I’m growing closer to God… but they’re not moving.”
Spiritual mismatch isn’t talked about enough in Christian circles.
It’s painful, confusing, and lonely, but it’s not the end of the road.

With love, prayer, and grace, growth doesn’t have to create a wall, it can build a bridge.

18/06/2025

Still waiting for “The One”?
You’re not forgotten. You’re being formed.

The waiting season isn’t wasted, it’s where God does His deepest work.
You’re not just waiting for someone. You’re being prepared by Someone.

In this new blog post, we unpack:
➡️ How to wait with purpose, not panic
➡️ The one question to ask yourself while waiting
➡️ What to do when it feels like God is silent
➡️ Why settling isn’t an option, even when you’re tired

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https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2561944_waiting-for-the-one-what-to-do-in-the-waiting-season

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13/06/2025

When love feels distant... it doesn’t mean it’s over.
It just means it’s time to lean in, not give up.

If you’re in that season where you still love each other, but the connection feels off, this is your gentle reminder:

You can reconnect without it turning into a fight.
You can love deeper—intentionally, prayerfully, and patiently.
You’re not alone, and your marriage is worth the effort.

“A gentle answer turns away wrath…” – Proverbs 15:1

Blog post- https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2560911_when-love-feels-distant-how-to-reconnect-without-starting-a-fight

09/06/2025

Feeling distant in your marriage? Read this.

Love isn’t always candlelit dinners and soft kisses. Sometimes, love looks like showing up when you feel like shutting down. It’s choosing your spouse again, even when it’s hard.

In a world that promotes quitting, Christian marriage is a radical act of faith.
It’s not built on fleeting feelings. It’s built on daily decisions, prayer, grace, and covenant.

When the flame fades, God can reignite it.
When the connection weakens, He can restore it.
Stop idolizing perfection and start practicing persistence.

Swipe through this carousel 👉 to be reminded that your marriage is a ministry, and God is not finished writing your story.

📖 Read the full blog at https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2550255_when-love-feels-hard-choosing-your-spouse-daily-in-a-culture-of-quitting
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01/06/2025

https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2539279_new-month-renewed-love-embracing-june-with-intentional-grace

10/05/2025