26/05/2024
If your relationship just started, please keep it low-key.
If your relationship hasnāt stood the test of time, please keep it low-key.
If your relationship has faced no real challenges, stay quiet and nurture it carefully.
If your relationship didnāt break down when tested, hold your peace and let God fight for you.
The disappointment and nonsense we see here is alarming.
Listen, the beginning of a relationship is always risky and delicate.
Itās like the rainy season; you wonāt see the true nature of your partner until the sun and harmattan come.
When it rains, everything seems perfect. People stay home, act their best, and avoid distractions. They want to keep warm, so they behave nicely, care for you, pamper you, and even engage in intimacy, making you feel special.
Wait until the sun shines to reveal their true character.
Wait until harmattan comes to test their endurance, character, finances, time, and attention.
Anyone who can endure these trials with you is worth celebrating.
Appreciate them for being by your side, with you, and for you, until you can stand strong together.
Donāt rush to Facebook to boast because your new date bought you gifts and is currently attentive.
HOLD ON just a littleāyou might find a reason not to embarrass yourself.
Have a conviction before making public declarations.
Discuss to learn the right things about them and life.
Sometimes provoke them to see their reactions, observe them closely, see if their love isnāt seasonal.
Open your eyes to see if they meet your standards, thatās for those who care.
Your posts will definitely be used against you.Many of you suffer in your relationships because your current partner mocks the words you used for your ex.You come here and tell us heās your treasure, choice, desire, the man after your heart.
Now that heās gone, your current date feels your heart is no more, so he plays with your mind and destroys your body.
You wonder why some celebrities you admire donāt declare their relationships until they surprise you with pre-wedding photos.
Some donāt like public declarations, and thatās okay. But some arenāt prepared for the drama.
Some of you are good at posting about people who donāt even see what you see. Itās just you involved š¤£š¤£
You havenāt experienced anything yetāonly credit alerts. Youāve not gone through serious misunderstandings and come out with your peace intact, yet youāre already flaunting things to impress others. Definitely not me.
You are the ones making relationships difficult.
Stop thinking relationships are about show, shawarma, pizza, clubbing on Friday nights, and posting on Facebook.
Build capacity and seek the kingdom pattern of relationships, and every other thing will be added unto you.
But for now, REST.
COPID.