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22/05/2026

Dear women, can you donate one of your k!dn£y to your husband according to the way he treats or love you?
Let's be real here.

*HOW TO TRAIN CHILDREN WHO CAN SURVIVE WITHOUT YOU*  1.  *Stop Doing Everything for Them* In many homes:Mummy washes.Mum...
19/05/2026

*HOW TO TRAIN CHILDREN WHO CAN SURVIVE WITHOUT YOU*

1. *Stop Doing Everything for Them*
In many homes:
Mummy washes.
Mummy cooks.
Mummy packs bag.
Mummy reminds about homework.
Mummy f!ghts teachers.
Mummy solves every problem.
And the child?
Just exists.
If your 14-year-old cannot:
– Wash their clothes
– Cook simple meals
– Iron their uniform
– Organize their schedule
Then something is wrong.
Example:
Ada goes to university and doesn’t know how to boil rice.
Not because she is dull.
But because nobody allowed her learn.
Teach life skills early.
Independence starts at home.

2. *Teach Decision Making Early.*
Some parents control everything:
“What will you wear?”
“What will you study?”
“Who will you befriend?”
“What course will you choose?”
Then at 20, the child cannot decide anything without calling home.
Allow small decisions early:
✔ Let them choose outfits sometimes
✔ Let them manage small money
✔ Let them solve minor conflicts
✔ Let them take responsibility for mistakes
Mistakes are training ground for maturity.

3. *Teach Financial Responsibility* .
Many young adults struggle because:
They never handled money before.
Teach them:
– How to save
– How to budget
– The value of hard work
– That money doesn’t grow on trees
Give them small responsibilities.
Even if it’s:
“Here is your transport money for the week, manage it.”
Financial wisdom builds survival skills.

4. *Build Emotional Strength.*
Some children collapse at the smallest disappointment because:
They were never allowed to face discomfort.
Parents shield them from everything.
But life will not shield them.
Teach them:
✔ How to handle rejection
✔ How to handle failure
✔ How to apologize
✔ How to bounce back
When your child fails an exam, don’t rescue immediately.
Guide them through recovery.
Resilience is survival skill.

5. *Stop Making Them Afraid of You.*
If your child fears you, they may obey you.
But they won’t develop confidence.
Children who survive without parents are children who:
– Think independently
– Speak up
– Ask questions
– Solve problems
Fear produces dependency.
Confidence produces independence.

6. *Teach Practical Skills.*
By teenage years, your child should know:
– Basic cooking
– Laundry
– Cleaning
– How to talk respectfully
– How to ask for help
– Basic safety awareness
Don’t say:
“They will learn when they marry.”
That mentality has destroyed many.
Marriage is not training school.
Home is.

7. *Teach Faith and Values*
If you are faith based, teach them:
– Personal prayer
– Moral boundaries
– Integrity
– Self control
Not just church attendance.
A child who knows their values can stand firm when you are not there.

*Parents Listen.*
Your children will leave for university.
They will travel abroad.
They will marry.
They will face decisions without you beside them.
And that is when your parenting will speak.
Not your shouting.
Not your control.
But the training you gave them.
Don’t raise children who need you forever.
Raise children who are strong because of you.
Your goal is not to make them dependent.
Your goal is to make yourself gradually unnecessary.
That is real success in parenting.
Because the greatest gift you can give your child is not money.
It is the ability to stand alone and still stand well.

7 THINGS MANY WIVES DEEPLY DESIRE FROM THEIR HUSBANDS IN MARRIAGE...✍🏽Many women may not always say everything openly, b...
19/05/2026

7 THINGS MANY WIVES DEEPLY DESIRE FROM THEIR HUSBANDS IN MARRIAGE...✍🏽

Many women may not always say everything openly, but deep within, there are emotional needs they sincerely long for from the man they love.

When those needs are ignored for too long, emotional distance quietly begins to grow.

But when a husband intentionally understands and nurtures his wife emotionally, the marriage becomes warmer, sweeter, and more peaceful.

Here are 7 things many wives deeply desire from their husbands in marriage:

1. ✅She Wants Love Expressed Openly
Many women desire reassurance. They want to hear loving words, feel affection, and experience emotional warmth consistently.

A woman may never get tired of hearing:

“I love you”
“You are beautiful”
“I appreciate you”
“I’m proud of you”
What to Do:
Express love intentionally through words, affection, attention, and actions regularly.

2. ✅She Wants Emotional Attention
Many wives are not only looking for provision financially — they also want emotional connection.

Some husbands provide money but are emotionally unavailable.

A woman wants a husband who listens, notices her feelings, and genuinely pays attention to her heart.

What to Do:
Talk with her. Listen attentively. Ask how she is feeling emotionally and genuinely care about her response.

3. ✅She Wants Peace and Emotional Safety
No woman wants to live in constant fear, tension, shouting, insults, emotional manipulation, or hostility.

A peaceful home helps a woman blossom emotionally.

What to Do:
Control anger wisely. Speak kindly. Create an atmosphere where your wife feels emotionally safe and respected.

4. ✅She Wants Support and Partnership
Marriage should not feel like she is carrying life alone.

Many wives desire husbands who support them emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and practically.

What to Do:
Help where necessary. Encourage her. Stand beside her during difficult seasons instead of leaving her emotionally overwhelmed.

5. ✅She Wants Affection and Physical Closeness
Simple acts of affection mean a lot to many women:

Holding hands
Hugging
Kissing
Sitting close
Gentle touch
Affection reassures emotional connection deeply.

What to Do:
Don’t become emotionally cold after marriage. Continue showing warmth and affection intentionally.

6. ✅She Wants Appreciation
Many wives work tirelessly without hearing simple appreciation.

Cooking, cleaning, caring for children, supporting the home, managing stress, and sacrificing daily can become emotionally exhausting when unnoticed.

What to Do:
Appreciate her efforts regularly. Never make her feel taken for granted.

7. ✅She Wants to Feel Chosen and Prioritized
A woman wants to know that despite work, pressure, family, phones, and responsibilities…
she still matters deeply to her husband.

She wants to feel emotionally secure in his love and commitment.

What to Do:
Make time for her intentionally. Protect your emotional connection. Continue pursuing your wife even after many years of marriage.

Final Thought
Marriage becomes stronger when couples intentionally care for each other’s emotional needs.

Dear husbands:
Your wife may not need perfection…

But she deeply needs:

Love
Attention
Peace
Affection
Support
Appreciation
Emotional connection
A woman who feels deeply loved often brings warmth, peace, loyalty, strength, and beauty into her marriage.

If this message blessed you, kindly share it.
Someone’s marriage may need this reminder today.


My Little  thought.🥰🥰🥰🥰Good evening Ladies, never let education become a reason to compete with your man instead of buil...
18/05/2026

My Little thought.🥰🥰🥰🥰

Good evening Ladies, never let education become a reason to compete with your man instead of building with him.

Whether you hold certificates, diplomas, degrees, masters or a PhD, respect in a relationship still matters. A wise woman understands that success and respect can exist together.

Education should bring wisdom, humility and understanding, not pride and constant power struggles.

Your man is not your competitor. He is your partner.
And a peaceful home is built when both husband and wife honor each other, appreciate each other, and play their roles with maturity and love.

A strong woman does not become less powerful by respecting her man. In fact, respect, communication and unity are what make relationships stronger than titles ever will.

Build together. Grow together. Win together.👏🏽

18/05/2026

In your heart you know the child you love best,,which is it?
1st,,2nd 3rd,,4th,,5th,,6th or all.
Let's know why.

18/05/2026

Why is it that of all the kids you gave birth to,,
As a parents you must have a favourite among them,why?

17/05/2026

When a man is living a premiscious life,,it's like a sweet coated with pois@n.
Beware!

17/05/2026

The only difference between prison and marriage is uniform.😅🏃🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

17/05/2026

In marriage its two good heads, not two heads.your head must be normal,because marriage fit make your brain abnormal. 😉any sense?

How do you break Generational, Sexual and Emotional Soul Ties⁉️⚠️ They can Break❗️See, you cannot conquer what you won’t...
14/05/2026

How do you break Generational, Sexual and Emotional Soul Ties⁉️⚠️ They can Break❗️

See, you cannot conquer what you won’t confront❗️

Deliverance doesn’t start with a preacher’s hand on your head, It starts with a decision in your heart. . .always.

📍1. Identify the Inherited Patterns that you got or brought in especially through Sexual Sin ‼️
Patterns don’t lie, they speak about something.
They tell you what altar your bloodline has been bowing to or will be bowing to‼️

Deaths that keep happening in certain months.🙄 Stagnation, premature ends of anything you start to do. . .🤷🏾‍♀️
Chronic fear that stalks generations. Lust, pride, greed, manipulation, sickness, idolatry, miscarriages, divorces, addictions, these are yokes that speak.

Trace it and you’ll find a spiritual stronghold that's feeding the pattern. You cannot conquer what you won’t confront.!!

📍2. Renounce them verbally and prophetically.‼️ Heaven always responds to sound.!!
The Bible says life and death are in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21). So don’t just think deliverance, declare it.
Say it loud until hell hears you.
Say “I renounce every agreement with fear and Baal-like control in my lineage! My loyalty is to Christ alone!”

Words break what silence protects.

They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony! Revelation 12:11
Your voice and the blood of Jesus are the swords that slash ancient agreements‼️

📍3. Prayers should be very specific‼️
Say “I break every ungodly tie made through sexual unions, covenantal agreements, emotional dependency, or trauma that came when I was with person A,B,C. . .
Name them. Renounce them ❗️
Say, "I renounce my sexual covenant with person A,B,C. ."
Then say: “I reclaim my body and soul for the Lord. My loyalty is to Christ alone.”
(Luke 14:26, 2 Cor 6:16-18)

Deliverance begins when shame loses its secrecy.

📍4. Change the behaviors and habits that feed those altars‼️. Thats how you tear down. You must go cold turkey on compromise.
Sin never plays pat-pat. It plays for keeps.

Block the numbers of those guys or ladies. Delete the sentimental chats.Burn the p**n stash.❌️
Trash the ex’s T-shirts and those underwears you keep smelling at night, swearing of their “sentimental value.”😅
Cut off friendships that keep you stuck in cycles of lust.

You don’t need to be rude. Just wise. Freedom still has boundaries.🤷🏾‍♀️. Go cold turkey on yourself. Radical ❗️

📍5. Once you tear down, replace them with righteous altars. Redirect your energy into something beneficial. Get to the gym. Take long walks. Serve in ministry. Serving in Church is one of the fastest ways to get on your feet. Be tired while serving. Serve from Monday till Monday. Plug into a fellowship of prayer.

Gideon built a godly altar in the same place he tore the old one down (Judges 6:26). Idleness feeds lust, purpose kills lust‼️

📍6. Get accountability. Sin thrives in isolation‼️. If no one can ask you hard questions, the devil already has you cornered.

Find a mentor, a couple, a leader who walks with God. Give them permission to check you, challenge you, and correct you. . .
If you want to grow, be ready to be pruned. . .not just be told "Jesus loves you" while someone is coddling your missteps.🤷🏾‍♀️
Mentorship is not just hugs and hallelujahs, sometimes it’s rebuke and recalibration.

📍7. Release and forgive. ‼️Forgive those who hurt you. Above all forgive yourself❗️Forgive yourself for allowing the toxic cycles round you.
The devil will whisper condemnation to your ears. There will also be those who will try to unearth old versions of you.
Don't allow the enemy to whisper that you are damaged goods. There's no condemnation for those in Christ.

Don’t let shame keep you tethered to yesterday.
The blood of Jesus speaks louder than your past.

📍8. Seek restoration and deliverance‼️Get a man or woman of God walking in truth to pray over you, not for show, but for sealing.
When the hedge was broken, things crawled in, but when the hedge is restored, purity becomes your shield again.
Deliverance and restoration is about hedging in under a spiritual covering. ❗️
If you left church, please go back. A step at a time.

📍9. Purpose in your heart to walk in purity‼️
Set firm boundaries on what you consume and conform to (Romans 12:2). What you consume or listen or entertain rewires your heart and mind.

You can’t keep listening to stuff that cheapen S*X and you think it won’t change your perspective. It will. You cannot binge on TikTok content or any social media content that mocks holiness, glorifies nakedness, promiscuity, being laid, banging ladies and expect purity to thrive. Garbage in, defilement out.‼️
Guard your gates, eyes, ears, mouth, nose,hands, feet, mind and heart.

Renew your mind. Change your playlists. . .
Change your habits, where you go when bored. . .
Feed your spirit until temptation starves.

📍10. Walk in freedom.‼️ Sometimes the biggest shackles comes from our mindset. Freedom isn’t just a feeling, it’s a mindset.
The loudest chain is the one in your head whispering, “Everyone’s doing it.”

No, not everyone is. There’s a remnant that still burns for righteousness. That hasn't bowed to Molech and Asherath of this world. Join them.!!

You are not too dirty to be delivered.
You are not too far gone to be found.

When Rahab tied that scarlet cord, she wasn’t just marking a window, she was changing her lineage❗️.
When Gideon tore that altar, he wasn’t just defying his father, he was defining a generation under God.❗️
When Daniel refused to bow, he was declaring that holiness is still possible, even in Babylon.❗️

Ask the Lord to break the yoke of a negative mindset...
In a world that celebrates compromise, purity is warfare. It’s not naïveté, it’s resistance.

It’s saying that “My body is not currency. My soul is not for sale. My bloodline is not a playground for demons.”

It ends here Satan‼️You are under my feet✊️‼️

Big shout out to my newest top fans! 💎 Lawrence B Mulbah, Patience Uduehi Jehwo, Lizzy Enoh, Lawrence Gichohi, Bro Gideo...
14/05/2026

Big shout out to my newest top fans! 💎 Lawrence B Mulbah, Patience Uduehi Jehwo, Lizzy Enoh, Lawrence Gichohi, Bro Gideon, Patrique Wezinswe, Ayambire Cynthia, Gift Chiamaka, Akinwale Dinnah, Mfon James Udoh, Chinyere Rosemary Mathew Okezie, Victora Ada Opara, Ajayi Olusola Abimbola, Evan Bowden, Agness Magwira, Charity Soila

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