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27/07/2026

Good day, Nurse Chi.

I am in love with a guy who claims to love me too, but he is currently broke. He does computer work. I once bought him a gift, but he didn't get me anything for my birthday because he had no money. Because of this, part of me has started losing feelings.

I am confusedI still love him, but the fact that our relationship isn't bearing any fruit is making me lose interest. I honestly don't trust the loyalty of broke men because I've been in this situation before and it ended badly. I was taken advantage of and deeply hvrt. I now believe that men make life easier for the women they love, and women do the same.

I have been sending him money, but wisely. Most times, I intentionally tell him I don't have any just to test his reaction. In my book, men are not to be trusted. I don't want to be fooled or broken again, but I really love this guy. Should I just kill the feelings and move on without telling him?

22/07/2026

Good day ceetee,
Please when is the right time to support a friend that lost a parent? I hope to attend the service of song that's in a month's time cos it's in my state. Do I send my little token support before the service of song or wait till about a month's time at the service of song. This is a friend I'm still likely to see before the service of song. Or do I give my support when we see each other before the service of song? Or timing doesn't matter?
This friend also supported me with 15k when I lost a parent, wasn't expecting it but appreciated it. I wanted to send either 15k or maybe 20k, dunno which; things are not too easy but I must support cos this friend ehhh ,e don tey
Kindly advise when to support. Thank you.
Anonymous.

21/07/2026

Good morning ma, please hide my ID, I genuinely need help from your community..Have been married for 4yrs now, we've a baby that's turning 2yrs soon.my hus is a pastor, we've been thru a lot, en I mean a lot , from sleeping on empty stomach while pregnant, house being closed, but I stuck together with him.weve also had lot of misunderstanding, until I got fed up, he has a baby mama, which I didn't have issues with, so we talked counselled by his senior pst to involve me wen it comes to his child, I came to realize they talked behind my back, he isn't good am managing money, he never went to school, so he was also advised we should sit plan, en open savings account, but still nothing.one day he woke up went to his baby mama, without telling me , came with the son in church 😥😥😥was shocked, I back my bags went home, somehow after 1mthn he convinced me to come back, the baby mama was to communicate thru me fast ,so I agreed,again he was addressed by his pastor, remember he isn't Young he is turning 38 soon.
So the issue at hand now is that, wen I returned I left our child at home,with my mother, I knew the issue at that house, pampers issue eating,so I left her,now am 3 months pregnant, the house was closed,I came to realize that he hasn't paid rent for 3mthns, the agent closed the house, I had to go home. Not forgetting the period I went home, the guy was chatting with lot 10 Ladies, asking them for their numbers telling them how they have nice b0* 0* bs, their his crush.wen I asked he told me he doesn't woe me any explanation.wev e been praying together nothing changes, have helped home with my money,but wen I try talking to him about finances in the house,it's never the right time to communicate Abt it ,he gets worked up, walks away.Now that am home I called him, only to realize he moved in with a lady in church,the lady they were previously talking with, I had asked he said ,the lady was asking about the word, you know just preaching.
Now he wrote me a message that I should find a better man than him.am stranded at home, with a 4 months pregnancy en a baby turning 2.
My mother would be very disappointed to know am carrying another child while she has been taking care other the other.
I feel like I make I comot the one in my be lly now, but somehow the money to do that I don't have😥😥😥am fend up

21/07/2026

hi can you help me haki I'm worried 😫.i.have been in a marriage for 2 years with this man and we have 2 kids one kid is his .this man had broke with his first wife in 2020 and they were not legally married .now the problem is I'm undertaking diploma and my mother inlaw wants the 2 first wife children to come back so that my husband to educate them.and yet my husband is not financially stableandhe is the one that pays my fees when I insist of breaking up he insists I leave the child with him and the child is 6 months old and we now live as a family but we are not legally married with him and he loves me is it a must that he(he insists that he should finish paying my fees first)should support the children from previous marriage yet their mother took them claiming that my husband is not able to educate them what should I do which will change my life
I am 22 years and he is 38 does that realy matter

21/07/2026

Good day nurse chi,
Trust everything is going smoothly with you.

I would like you to help me post so I can get advice from your followers ma🙏

I'm a 24-year-old young lady in a relationship with a 31-year-old guy. He works a regular 9–5 job and earns really well.

Since we started d@ting, he has never willingly given me money. Whenever I ask him for financial support, he either stalls posts me or completely goes mute. Then, right before the next time we plan to meet, he’ll send about 20k. Mind you, I never complain, and he keeps telling me how much he loves me without making any actual effort. He doesn't prioritize my needs at all.

I am an entrepreneur and can afford my own things, but I don’t want to give him the impression that I don't need a partner who supports me. Because he feels I have money, he acts so stingy! I don't know if he thinks I'm naive or something. He practically tells me he believes women should take care of their men, and that he believes in splitting bills 50/50 in marriage. Please my people, is splitting bills 50/50 in marriage advisable? I'm just so confused.

I am a selfless lover I honestly don't mind giving my last dime to the man I love. But based on the shege I experienced in my past relationship, things didn't end well. I now believe that any man who truly loves you will prioritize your needs, too.

This man acts way too cunning; I can't even explain it. The last time we saw each other, he asked if I could pay for every bill from the hotel room to our food and drinks. I was shocked! I refused and told him it wasn't my place to do so. He immediately changed his mood and told me I was wrong, saying anyone can pay for bills and that it’s just like him saying it’s not his place to clean or cook.

Omo... too many red flags. I have asked him for money countless times, and he just asks for my account details, goes mute, ghosts me, and comes back later with excuses still without sending anything. I feel like he's with me because he thinks I'm naive and will agree to whatever he says.

Please, I need your advice! 😭

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15/07/2026

Good morning ma pls post for me, I don't know if someone had experience this, a friend of mine sent Moni to my acc that she is supposed to use and repay a loan she took from micro finance bank that same day I went to de hospital for a check I wanted to transfer 9100 to their acc and I mistakenly sent 91,000 to de acc since last week Friday I have been going to the hospital and de lady incharge of de lab section keep saying de accountant of the hospital says she is working on it I ask her for how long she says it may take to de end of the month, and my friend is already threatening me with police I don't know what to do.

Unfortunately I can’t go out to che@t
14/07/2026

Unfortunately I can’t go out to che@t

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13/07/2026

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13/07/2026

I have a girlfriend. I left my church and started going to my girlfriends church even when my wife is not in support of me leaving our church. I have an excuse. I’ve been in relationship with this girl for 4 years. I later found out she has another boyfriend who is also a married man like me. I didn’t confront her immediately. I started monitoring her and I noticed she derives joy sitting close to the man at the church. The man comes to church with his wife but this girl will sit in front of the man and will be shaking nyash while dancing. I got so jealous that I asked her about the man and she admitted they are in a relationship. I went to the man and confronted him. I told the man that the lady he’s in a relationship with is a married woman. It seems this girl didn’t tell the man. The man started avoiding her. This girl became sick and begged the man for 3 months but this man refused. I thought this will bring us closer, instead it separated us more. She started avoiding me saying I spoiled her relationship. I begged and begged and she refused. I became sick. All the test said I’m normal but my tummy and let was swollen. And enlarging every day. My finances started going down. One day my wife called me to come to church immediately and I was told this girl took my private thing to shrine. That she jazzed me and that I should pray for deliverance. We did one week prayer with my wife and pastor. I became well and my business started booming again. I am no longer in a relationship with her. One day, I saw her on the road. I stopped my car and called her to know how she’s doing. We hugged and exchanged pleasantly. She jokingly told me I have forgotten her and I told her she’s the one running away from me. I told her I will send her some money. She asked if I still have her account and I said yes. I transferred 30,000 to her. She was so happy. I noticed few weeks later that my health started going down again. This time around, I didn’t inform my wife. I went to the pastor and he revealed this same thing about me meeting her and sending her money. He prayed again and warned me to stay away from her. This is where I need advice. All these happened 8months ago. Recently, I saw this same girl. She is so thin as if she’s sick. I could not hold it to my self and I called her to ask if all is well. She told me her husband is dead and things are hard for her. I sent her 100k and she appreciated me. Since I sent that money, she has been professing love to me. She apologized for hvrting me. I forgot to tell you that she admitted taking my name to shrine. She said she did it out or anger and she apologized. She has been begging for us to get back. She no longer has camera phone. She’s using touch phone. I still love her. Now that she’s a widow, can we date? Do you think that now that she loves me, can she hvrt me? As in taking my private thing to shrine again. I need advice. I’m in a dilemma

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