20/05/2026
When I was preparing for marriage, I had to settle something deep within me as a single brother. I believe strongly in the will of God, no doubt about that. But I also came to understand a truth many people avoid:
The person you will marry will not be perfect.
There may be personal flaws.
There may be environmental limitations.
There may be gaps from upbringing, education, or background.
And that realization is not a threat to God’s will, it is part of it.
So I told myself this: “Even in God’s will, I will meet a human, not an angel.”
And by His grace, we will not focus on picking each other apart…
We will focus on building each other up.
We will grow through the flaws.
We will heal through the differences.
We will strengthen what is good, and patiently work on what is not yet right.
Because a successful marriage is not the absence of weakness
It is the commitment to grow together despite it.
Dear single, understand this before you say “I do”:
God’s will gives you the right person, but it is your attitude, your patience, and your love that will make the marriage beautiful.
Don’t go into marriage expecting perfection.
Go in ready to build it.
From the table of I Must Marry Right & My Marriage Must Work. Follow for more inspired write-ups.
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