13/09/2020
Judgment.
Is it my opinion or is it an opinion of more people, who have all a history with this theme.
There is a lot of judgement more than ever lately and we share a lot of judgments. Did you know that a judgment is based on a feeling you have? Yes it is a feeling that makes you judge. A feeling of duality and you know that is yours to understand why there is such a duality within you. Within you there is a conflict that makes you judge, the feeling of you have a right to judge, you have a right to express your opinion. And it still your feeling of opinion where you have an attachment with.
Duality is fear based with the conflict of love based. A reminder that you have some work to do within yourself. The outside only shows you and your reaction towards it, is letting you know that this is an issue within you. You can’t change a person when you are in duality, because there is no objective view. Change will not happen when you stay in your defense of your own pain, that you aren’t ready to face.
Judgment is an anger within you, your feeling of righteousness. So when you are in this duality there is a feeling within you that you have about this isn’t right. A betrayal, an unjustment a hurt within you. This can be a childhood hurt that you have experienced, connecting this situation that is being judged to a similar situation. A feeling is making you judge, when you realize that this same situation is a reaction of a situation of your own past, an experience that you had and still exist today.
Questions like what do I feel about this, where does this feeling come from, did I ever had a situation of this feeling before? What does this reminds me off. Who do I know that gives me the same feeling? Is it towards the person who is saying it, or is it about the story that has been told? What triggers me about this the most? Can I have an objective viewpoint in this?
Do I know everything about this, or just a small part what I'm judging now?
In what way is this written, to upset me? to make me anger? To push me in a certain direction? To make me aware of something or even is this a judgmental way or is it written so I can make my own opinion of the information. Who is this person and from what perspective is this being said? What is the story behind it?
Only when you address it, the feeling can be transformed and your judgment would be changed because you look at it from a different perspective. More open minded, like a broader overview instead of a restricted point of view. And the judgment will not control you, and keeping you so busy in your head. In your head are the words and in your heart is the feeling.
Changing that makes you grow in your soul consciousness.
Margje