23/08/2026
How to take care of yourself
Whilst taking care of yourself shouldn’t be an afterthought, it is really easy to let self care slide and silently descend towards burnout. If you’ve ever found yourself running on stress, adrenaline and caffeine in the hopes things will be easier once this deadline has passed or this sleep regression is over, then you are pushing and your hormones are bearing the brunt of it!
I was diagnosed with burnout at the start of 2025 and people told me that having a baby was the universe’s way of getting me to slow down.
“Hilarious” I thought, as I went on maternity a week before giving birth, and opened my laptop again five days postpartum (yes, academia is a cult, that’s another post!).
I had intended to get up early this morning and get a workout done and do some housework. But now Iris is asleep in The Big Bed and I cannot leave her. So my husband brings me breakfast, a cup of tea, and then a coffee. I am ‘forced’ to just stay here, and it’s the best thing I can do in this moment, just enjoying this time.
Burnout often manifests in the small ways first: 3pm crashes, mood swings, skin breakouts, sugar cravings (this is not an exhaustive list).
What your body is asking you for is:
🩷restful, good quality sleep
🩷proper nutritious food to support your body and mind
🩷community! Time with other people (emphasis on quality time not quantity)
🩷getting outside in nature and fresh air (or as fresh as your surroundings provide, thanks climate change)
🩷restorative movement (yoga, gentle Pilates, walking) - not high internist, as this will raise your cortisol
You’re still in there, you just need to find your way back - gently.
I’m curious to hear whether you’ve had burnout too, and what helped you to recover?