28/07/2026
Stress: It's complicated. It's a little like oxygen. Too little or too much is dangerous. Why do some people thrive in a particular challenge or situation, and others panic and become overwhelmed? Remember the Wild Boars, Thai schoolboys who in 2018 became trapped in a cave in Thailand? For some of the people who rescued them, for example Dr Richard Harris, extreme cave diving is a hobby - something done for fun, pure challenge. For the boys, being moved out through rock squeezes under water in pitch blackness with no hope of rescue if something went wrong, was a prospect so utterly overwhelming that they needed to be anaesthetised unconscious in order to survive it. Blind panic would have killed them and their rescuers.
The cave was the same for everyone. Same rock, same water. In theory, the same stressor. So what was the difference between the boys and their rescuers? In a word, perception.
Perception of our ability to cope mediates whether we will view a stressor as an existential crisis, or as something to relish mastering. Training helps. It helped that Harris had been cave diving for a very long time. It was even more fortuitous for the boys that he was an anaesthetist. There were other factors, too many to mention, that went well in that situation.
Workplace stress is my thing. When the boss calls you in for a discussion, do you feel like a cave diver or a schoolboy? (BTW, that's me in the pic, trying to be a little bit zen....)