11/06/2026
Louder for the people at the back đŁ
Responding to your babyâs needs is never a bad habit.
It doesnât create a rod for your own back. It doesnât mean youâre doing something wrong. It means youâre doing exactly what your baby needs you to doâŚshowing up.
Babies arenât manipulative.
Theyâre not trying to âtrainâ you. Theyâre communicating the only way they know how, and you responding to that? Thatâs called secure attachment. Thatâs called good parenting.
So the next time someone tells you that youâre âmaking a rod for your own backâ by holding, feeding, or comforting your baby, you can smile, nod, and keep doing exactly what youâre doing. đ
Youâve got this. And your baby is lucky to have you.