Creative Connections Arts Therapy Auckland

09/06/2026

I enjoyed this thoughtful article exploring some of the small but meaningful habits often found in people who remain positive and engaged as they grow older. While we often focus on physical health, emotional wellbeing is equally shaped by the gentle practices we cultivate throughout our lives.

The article highlights the importance of things such as staying curious, nurturing relationships, practising gratitude, continuing to learn, finding moments of joy, spending time in nature, and developing the ability to adapt through life’s inevitable changes.

From a therapeutic perspective, these qualities are not about ignoring difficulties or forcing ourselves to “think positively.” They are about building emotional flexibility, self-compassion, connection, and the capacity to find meaning, even through challenging seasons of life.

Creativity can also play a powerful role in this process. Making art, telling our stories, reflecting on our experiences, and staying open to wonder can help us remain connected to ourselves and the world around us at every stage of life.

Perhaps ageing well is less about staying the same, and more about continuing to grow. 🌿

It’s not an exact science, but there tend to be two different camps of seventy-somethings: There are the ones who’ve curdled a little — they lead with the bad knee, the weather, the sorry state of the world. Suffice it to say: they’re a bit grumpy. And then there are the other ones, who seem...

04/06/2026

24/05/2026

Much of our healing culture is still organized around the mind. Around thinking differently, understanding more, finding the right framework, philosophy, diagnosis, or spiritual language to explain our suffering. And while insight matters, many of the deepest patterns we struggle with do not originate in thought.
They live in the nervous system. In the body. In the unlived emotional world beneath conscious awareness.
Long before we had language, many of us learned that it was not entirely safe to be here. Not safe to fully feel. Not safe to fully embody ourselves. Not safe to relax our defenses.
Over time, the body adapts. The nervous system organizes itself around protection. And eventually we begin to mistake survival patterns for identity . . . .
Healing is not always about becoming someone new. Sometimes it is about creating enough safety to finally inhabit the life that has been waiting underneath the defense.

Matt Licata
Artwork by Andrea Kowch

15/05/2026

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03/05/2026

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25/03/2026

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Some people believe that only the loss of a loved one should trigger a grief response but we now know that grief is not a response to death but to loss, of all kinds, and ought to be honored.

16/02/2026

Good news for Auckland based young people in need of mental health support. https://www.facebook.com/share/p/17teVXFMq6/

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18/01/2026

Such valuable insights into parenting with self-awareness. Well worth the listen. In this episode of Conversations with Annalisa Barbieri Professor Alessandra Lemma and Annalisa explore what it truly means to be a “good enough mother”. Drawing on the original concept by paediatrician and psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott, they challenge the pressure for perfection and instead focus on what really matters in parenting, and what doesn’t, in ways that might surprise you. The conversation weaves psychoanalytic wisdom with real-world reflections, inviting listeners to reconsider childhood memories, expectations, and the value of ordinary, attentive caregiving over unrealistic ideals.

Society & Culture Podcast · Updated weekly · Have you ever wanted X-ray specs into human behaviour? Then this is the podcast for you. Listen to ‘brilliant, insightful and wise’ agony aunt and journalist Annalisa Barbieri, as she releases exclusi…

07/01/2026

Engaging with the arts can be a powerful way to enhance mental and physical wellbeing in by reducing stress, anxiety, depression and even lowering risks of cognitive decline, while strengthening brain connectivity and fostering joy through meaningful activity; scientific research shows that singing, dancing, drawing, visiting exhibitions and other creative practices benefit mood, immune function and overall health, and offers five practical ways to bring creativity into everyday life, encouraging people to see art not as a luxury but as an essential part of a healthy lifestyle.

These creative activities support wellbeing through a combination of physiological, emotional, and relational pathways, by engaging the nervous system in states of focus, pleasure, and gentle challenge that help regulate stress hormones and calm the body, while also stimulating brain plasticity and strengthening neural connections linked to memory, mood, and emotional resilience. Making or engaging with art can induce a flow state, drawing attention away from rumination and worry, offering a sense of agency, mastery, and meaning, and allowing feelings to be expressed and processed safely without the pressure of words. Shared creative experiences such as singing, dancing, or attending exhibitions also foster social connection and belonging, which are key protective factors for mental health, while regular creative rituals provide structure, rhythm, and moments of beauty that support emotional regulation and a deeper sense of vitality in everyday life.

Engaging in creativity can reduce depression, improve immunity and delay ageing – all while you’re having fun

25/12/2025

This perspective reminds us that pleasure and celebration are not fickle, superficial, or non-essential. They are not about excess or spending, but about attunement. Noticing and valuing the preciousness of transient beauty and joy, precisely because they are fleeting is one of the keys to living a joyful life. Cultivating pleasure can be an act of care, resistance, and restoration, especially in a world that so often prioritises endurance over enjoyment. Savoring what is gentle, meaningful, and alive in the present moment can be a powerful way of supporting wellbeing, connection, and a sense of being fully human. This article explores the idea of being a "bon vivant", not in the sense of indulgence or extravagance, but as a way of engaging more fully and consciously with life. It suggests that pleasure is not a guilty extra or a reward for productivity, but a vital contributor to psychological wellbeing. The research highlighted in the piece shows that positive emotions help broaden our thinking, strengthen resilience, and deepen our capacity for connection. The practice of savoring, whether through anticipation, presence, or reflection, allows everyday moments of enjoyment to linger and nourish us. So rather than relying on rare, lavish experiences let's emphasise the power of small, frequent pleasures, a good meal shared with others, the beauty of light, texture or nature, a moment of laughter, or the quiet satisfaction of being fully present. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/4000-mondays/202511/how-to-become-a-bon-vivant?utm_source=FacebookPost&utm_medium=FBPost&utm_campaign=FBPost&fbclid=IwY2xjawO6jQ1zcnRjBmFwcF9pZBAyMjIwMzkxNzg4MjAwODkyAAEehQ419KncVO40T4I0pEGSvTwGElisKzBembp6l_VJwGnqJhH2iHz28Bu_uq0&brid=Y-Bn4tDZ0tJdg21mJ0jI4w

3. Seek out small luxuries, not extravagance.