28/01/2026
“Doc, akong anak dili gyud mo open up nako.”
Common report a parent tells me. This might be because, a ‘trusting relationship’ has not been made with the child growing up. Sadly, it is not ‘automatic’ or implied that if we are the parent, our teen opens up to us about his/her struggles. 😔
However, relationships can be built and restored overtime!
Learn with me (I am a parent too)! Sharing these research based parenting habits to help us develop a loving relationship with our children, so that when they are old enough to share their thoughts, they will NATURALLY open up to us.
🧑🧑🧒🧒Quiet Parenting Habits That Help Shape a Child for Future Success (in Life) ✨
1. Listen before you speak – When children feel heard, they develop confidence and trust in their own voice.
2. Regulate your emotions – Staying calm teaches children how to manage their own emotions; they mirror what they see.
3. Connect before you correct – A child is more open to guidance when they feel valued and understood.
4. Give responsibility early – Allow mistakes and involve them in chores; responsibility builds competence and accountability.
5. Be present, not just provide– Children need your time and attention more than material gifts.
6. Praise effort, not just outcomes – This nurtures perseverance, resilience, and a growth mindset.
7. Guide rather than control – Allow them to make mistakes safely! We will not be around forever, our goal should be to prepare them to be on their own.
Let me know your thoughts and other tips you’d like to share with me 🙂