Lanz Paolo Olegario, MA, RPsy - Psychologist

28/08/2026

𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲.

That is why I offer 𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗢𝗻 𝗗𝗲𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗠𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝗦𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 for people who may need more immediate professional support. 🧠🧡

These sessions are available for 𝗦𝗔𝗠𝗘 𝗗𝗔𝗬 𝗕𝗢𝗢𝗞𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗢𝗡𝗟𝗬 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗱𝗮𝘆. You book on the day itself, which is exactly why they are called 𝗢𝗻 𝗗𝗲𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗦𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀.

📅 Every Friday
🕟 4:30 PM to 6:30 PM
💻 Online session
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📲 Same day booking only
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I want to make space for people who need timely, compassionate, and professional care when the need feels more immediate. 🧡

Send me a message on Friday to check for an available slot.

27/08/2026

There is something deeply meaningful about hearing that a book you wrote became the kind of book someone wished they had during one of the hardest seasons of her life. 🧡

In her review of 𝙄 𝘼𝙢 𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙄 𝘾𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙖 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝘼𝙣𝙮𝙬𝙖𝙮, Samantha Gail Lucas described it as “𝘈 𝘓𝘰𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘚𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘬𝘴” and highlighted “𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘳’𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘸𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘵𝘺𝘭𝘦.” That means so much to me because I wanted this book to feel human, practical, and easy to connect with, especially for people who are struggling, healing, or trying to find their way again.

Read her full review here:
🔗 https://www.speakoutsam.com/samsdiary/2026/7/7/i-am-struggling-but-i-choose-a-life-of-purpose-anyway-a-lot-of-self-help-that-works?rq=Struggling%20

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🧡 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐝𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐦𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐫. 𝐉𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞.

27/08/2026

𝗦𝗢𝗟𝗗 𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗔𝗚𝗔𝗜𝗡 𝗢𝗡 𝗦𝗛𝗢𝗣𝗘𝗘! 😭🧡

I am honestly so overwhelmed, happy, and grateful.

𝙄 𝘼𝙢 𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙄 𝘾𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙖 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝘼𝙣𝙮𝙬𝙖𝙮 keeps finding its way to people who need it, and my heart is so full.

Shopee orders and restocks are handled by my publisher, so please wait for their official restock updates.

But you can still order directly from me, the author. Just send me a message. You may also request a personalized dedication. 🥹

Thank you so much for supporting this book.

Still struggling, still choosing purpose. 🧡

𝗜𝗧’𝗦 𝗕𝗔𝗖𝗞 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗡𝗢𝗪 𝗔𝗩𝗔𝗜𝗟𝗔𝗕𝗟𝗘 𝗔𝗚𝗔𝗜𝗡! 🥹🧡

After selling out multiple times, my book 𝙄 𝘼𝙢 𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙄 𝘾𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙖 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝘼𝙣𝙮𝙬𝙖𝙮 is now available again!

This is the book for the overthinkers, the tired ones, the healing ones, and the people who look okay outside but are quietly carrying so much inside.

Part memoir, a lot of self-help, and a workbook all in one. With a foreword by Ms. Jodi Sta. Maria, this book will remind you that you do not need a perfect mind before your life can begin.

Get your copy before it sells out again.

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐝𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐦𝐞. 𝐉𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞. 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐚 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐝𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨𝐨! 🥹

📚 Get your copy here:

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Your struggle does not cancel your purpose. This book is here to remind you of that. 🧡

26/08/2026

📚 Get your copy here:

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𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐝𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐦𝐞. 𝐉𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞. 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐚 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐝𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨𝐨! 🥹

Your struggle does not cancel your purpose. This book is here to remind you of that. 🧡

I Am Still Struggling But I Choose A Life Of Purpose Anyway is an honest and deeply human book about navigating pain, overthinking, and emotional struggles while continuing to choose a life of meaning and purpose. Discover a different way of carrying pain—while still moving toward what truly matters. 📖

🔗Take these words to heart—get your copy here:
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26/08/2026

Join me at my book signing this September 13, from 2:30 PM to 3:00 PM, at the Manila International Book Fair, SMX Convention Center, Mall of Asia! 📚

I’ll be signing copies of 𝙄 𝘼𝙢 𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙄 𝘾𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙖 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝘼𝙣𝙮𝙬𝙖𝙮, a book about learning to live meaningfully even when life is difficult. It is a reminder that even in struggle, we can still find hope, joy, and purpose.

I’d love to see you there. 🧡

25/08/2026

𝗜𝗧’𝗦 𝗕𝗔𝗖𝗞 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗡𝗢𝗪 𝗔𝗩𝗔𝗜𝗟𝗔𝗕𝗟𝗘 𝗔𝗚𝗔𝗜𝗡! 🥹🧡

After selling out multiple times, my book 𝙄 𝘼𝙢 𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙄 𝘾𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙖 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝘼𝙣𝙮𝙬𝙖𝙮 is now available again!

This is the book for the overthinkers, the tired ones, the healing ones, and the people who look okay outside but are quietly carrying so much inside.

Part memoir, a lot of self-help, and a workbook all in one. With a foreword by Ms. Jodi Sta. Maria, this book will remind you that you do not need a perfect mind before your life can begin.

Get your copy before it sells out again.

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐝𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐦𝐞. 𝐉𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞. 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐚 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐝𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨𝐨! 🥹

📚 Get your copy here:

🛒 CentralBooks: https://central.com.ph/product/olegario-i-am-struggling-but-i-choose-a-life-of-purpose-anyway/

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Your struggle does not cancel your purpose. This book is here to remind you of that. 🧡

24/08/2026

Not every ending means you failed. Sometimes, something ends because it has already taught you what you needed to learn. Sometimes walking away is not weakness. Sometimes the life you planned has to end so you can make room for a life that is more honest and aligned with what truly matters to you.

𝙄 𝘼𝙢 𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙄 𝘾𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙖 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝘼𝙣𝙮𝙬𝙖𝙮 is for anyone who is still figuring life out while carrying anxiety, sadness, fear, regret, heartbreak, or uncertainty. Through my personal and clinical experiences as well as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, I wrote this book to remind you that healing does not require a perfect life or a pain free mind. You can still struggle and choose meaning, courage, joy, love, and purpose anyway. 🧡

📚 Get your copy here:

🛒 CentralBooks: https://central.com.ph/product/olegario-i-am-struggling-but-i-choose-a-life-of-purpose-anyway/

🛒 Shopee: https://shopee.ph/product/283917441/45563822483/

🛒 Lazada: https://s.lazada.com.ph/s.ZhalwS?c=v

🛒 TikTok Shop: https://vt.tiktok.com/ZS9hXXveRmngS-T88Ga/

You can also get a copy directly from me. Just send me a message. 🧡

23/08/2026

What does it mean to be an adult? No matter how it is defined, becoming an adult is a process.

For many young people today, that journey includes an extended phase of exploration, instability, and self-discovery shaped by today’s social and economic realities.

Learn more: https://at.apa.org/ef7922

17/08/2026

Safety first. Please stay safe and dry, everyone. 🧡

The rain is heavy today in Metro Manila. If you do not need to go out, please stay somewhere safe and dry. Avoid flooded areas. Take care of yourself and check on the people you love. 🧡

And perhaps, while we wait for the skies to clear, this can also be a gentle reminder for the storms we carry inside:

“The sky does not have to be perfectly clear for me to keep moving toward a meaningful life.”

Some days will be cloudy. Some seasons will feel heavier than others. We do not have to force the storm to disappear before we can remember what matters.

This is one of the messages I share in 𝙄 𝘼𝙢 𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙄 𝘾𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙖 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝘼𝙣𝙮𝙬𝙖𝙮. A book about learning to live meaningfully even when life, and our inner world, does not feel perfectly clear.

Please stay safe today. The book can wait. Your safety comes first. 🧡

📚 When it is safe and convenient, you can get a copy here:

🛒 CentralBooks: https://central.com.ph/product/olegario-i-am-struggling-but-i-choose-a-life-of-purpose-anyway/

🛒 Shopee: https://shopee.ph/product/283917441/45563822483/

🛒 Lazada: https://s.lazada.com.ph/s.ZhalwS?c=v

🛒 TikTok Shop: https://vt.tiktok.com/ZS9hXXveRmngS-T88Ga/

🫴 You can also buy directly from me. Just send me a message.

13/08/2026

This September 13, at the Manila International Book Fair, you are warmly invited to a 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗟𝗮𝗻𝘇 𝗣𝗮𝗼𝗹𝗼 𝗢𝗹𝗲𝗴𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗼, registered psychologist and author of the fast-selling, back-to-back sold-out mental health book 𝙄 𝘼𝙢 𝙎𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙎𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙄 𝘾𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙖 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝘼𝙣𝙮𝙬𝙖𝙮.

This is not just another self-help book. It is part memoir, a lot of self-help, and a workbook all in one. A deeply human book for the overthinkers, the tired ones, the anxious ones, the healing ones, and everyone who is still trying to choose purpose even while carrying pain.

With a foreword by Ms. Jodi Sta. Maria, this book has already found its way to readers who needed a language for their struggles, their healing, and their hope.

📚 Special Book Signing Event
💡Hosted by CentralBooks/CentralBooks - College, Children's Books, POD
📅 September 13, Sunday
⏰ 2:30 PM to 3:00 PM
📍 CentralBooks Booth, SMX Convention Center Manila
📖 Manila International Book Fair

Copies of the book will also be available at the CentralBooks booth. Get your copy there, have it signed, and bring home a book that reminds you that your struggle does not cancel your purpose. 🧡