05/08/2026
💁🏼♀️I’m just a girl
Where does the self-confidence start?
In a quiet no.
When you stop accepting: being treated like you are a five-year old, being told what to do, being criticized for your life choices, being lied to, being the second option, being the one who sacrifices more, being called silly, dramatic, too much, weak and add your own example here…
Self-confidence starts when you stop justifying these behaviors and notice:
„I don’t deserve this kind of treatment”
Then you stand up for yourself for the first time and the world is in shock.
„What happened to her?”
„She was always so nice.”
„She always smiled. Maybe she’s having THESE DAYS.”
True self-confidence, not the „lipstick-and-high-heels-confidence”, not the „I’m-a-man-in-a-woman-body” confidence is an art of consistently respecting yourself and standing up for yourself every day.
It is helping others understand how they should treat you, openly communicating your needs and not asking for permission to live your life.
And it’s easier said than done.
Self-confidence is a topic of my work with both, women and men.
We often carry the patterns that tell us it’s better to give up, step down, stay small.
These patterns block you from standing strong on your feet.
They show up as tightnesses in the chest.
I have availability in August and September for individual sessions online and in person.
Reach out 🫶 do it for yourself 🫶 to become confident in your own life 🫶