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Bianca Ceruța Bianca Ceruța — Therapist & coach

For people who feel deeply & overthink what they feel.

Psychodynamic therapy for emotional clarity & secure relationships.
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http://biancaceruta.com

Healing is growing into the adult you needed to have around you when you were a kid. How do you notice that you are grow...
03/10/2026

Healing is growing into the adult you needed to have around you when you were a kid.

How do you notice that you are growing into the person you used to need? What are the sign? Drop it into the comments. ✍🏻👇

02/10/2026

Independence is the nervous system's response when early experiences taught you that people aren't safe. Your strategy became self-sufficiency, and the cost is that you can't let anyone close enough to matter, even when you desperately want to.

You've built a narrative so convincing that vulnerability is both a threat and a weakness. And sometimes, it might still feel like the safest choice.

What I know from my work: you can change this. Anyone can develop healthy relationships when they look directly at these patterns and practice differently. You start by build more safety in the body, so you can work on those core beliefs about relationships and people.

I’m always here to help & guide you on this journey.

I know the therapy world well enough to say this: we’ve spent years teaching people to regulate their nervous systems wh...
01/10/2026

I know the therapy world well enough to say this: we’ve spent years teaching people to regulate their nervous systems while the world around them stays fragmented. We’ve made healing into individual work when the wound is collective, which only deepens the initial wound that’s causing all the pain.

But here’s what I’ve learned. You can start belonging right now, before the system changes. The work of finding your people, of showing up for them, of creating spaces where people are tended to instead of extracted from, starts now, with you. It’s personal and it’s collective at once.

So tell me: what systemic abandonment have you felt in your body? Where do you see institutional abuse woven so deep into everyday life that we’ve stopped naming it? And what does your own movement toward connection look like right now?

30/09/2026

Send this to someone who needs to hear it and save it for yourself as a reminder for the next time you’ll be terrified of conflict!

Safety comes with boundaries. When you set a boundary and the other person respects it and doesn’t constantly test it, y...
28/09/2026

Safety comes with boundaries. When you set a boundary and the other person respects it and doesn’t constantly test it, you know you can rely on them to not intentionally and unintentionally hurt you.

But it’s also your job to know how to set boundaries. And while it’s not something that might’ve been taught to you, it’s something you can learn, just like any skill.

And it’s also a big part of the work that I do in 1:1 sessions. I am currently taking two new clients, so DM me this post if you’re considering working together and want more information about what that’s like.

25/09/2026

I struggled my entire life with this deep belief that if I love someone, regardless of whether it’s a romantic partner or a friend, they have to stay in my life no matter what the circumstances, the behaviours or how these behaviours make me feel.

But this year reinforced this idea that I keep circling back to: your support system can either make you or break you. And it is absolutely okay if you realize that you do love and care for someone, but that you may no longer be aligned and the space between you only brings you anxiety.

It’s okay to be mature and say enough is enough, I can’t do this anymore. Even if it terrifies you.

Your brain has cells that fire both when you do something and when you watch someone else do it. Sit near someone whose ...
21/09/2026

Your brain has cells that fire both when you do something and when you watch someone else do it. Sit near someone whose body is calm, and your own heart rate and breathing start settling toward theirs, almost like borrowing their calm before you can feel your own.

That’s part of why healing rarely happens through self-regulation. Someone else’s calm nervous system can lower your own physical stress response in real time, and isolation, even the one you choose yourself, cuts off access to that.

What are you afraid will happen if you start letting people in?

I keep thinking about how obsessed we are with the idea of getting it right and changing once and for all once on our fi...
20/09/2026

I keep thinking about how obsessed we are with the idea of getting it right and changing once and for all once on our first try.

I see this mostly when it comes to relational patterns. A lot of the people that I work with have this expectations to never get it wrong when it comes to the people that they choose romantically only because they’ve been through it once.

But understanding something rationally doesn’t mean you’re ready to change it and that’s okay. Changing takes courage and the willingness to sit with the discomfort and that’s probably the hardest part of any healing process.

Save this for when you need a kind reminder & send it to someone who has crazy expectations to change!

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Bucharest

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Monday 11:00 - 20:00
Tuesday 09:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 09:00 - 17:00
Thursday 09:00 - 17:00
Friday 09:00 - 17:00

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