12/06/2026
THROUGH A COUNSELLOR'S LENS: DIGNITY IN AGEING
With eight years of counselling experience—including five as a social worker in a Family Service Centre—Man Wei found her calling in the quiet, deeper work of walking alongside people through difficult moments. Three years into her journey at Tsao Foundation, that purpose remains clear.
That early grounding in social work continues to shape how she shows up today. Guided by Tsao Foundation’s bio-psycho-social (BPS) approach, she looks beyond surface concerns—paying attention not just to what is said, but also to the emotional, relational, and environmental factors shaping a person’s experience. For Man Wei, older persons bring a wealth of lived experience. “I see my role as a facilitator of their mental and psychological wellbeing, rather than someone who ‘fixes’ things,” she shared.
Part of that role involves noticing when something feels off. It might be a pause when certain names come up, a shift in mood, or a growing sense of fear or withdrawal—subtle signs that can point to deeper concerns, including possible abuse.
In these moments, Man Wei leans into a gentle, non-judgemental approach—building trust, listening closely, and creating a safe space for seniors to speak, if and when they are ready. From there, she supports them at their own pace, helping them regain a sense of voice and control.
As we mark Elder Abuse Awareness Day this month, we highlight the role that counsellors play in recognising these quiet signs, creating safe spaces, and supporting older persons to reconnect with their voice and sense of agency.
Swipe through to hear more reflections from Man Wei on dignity, wellbeing, and what it means to truly support our seniors. 💛