07/09/2026
Some clients have asked if offers a counselling package for more than four sessions. While I am very grateful for the positive feedback, my reply for now is - No, because I would like us to use every four sessions as a checkpoint to evaluate the restorative journey.
I thought this metaphor in horticulture would help to illustrate my intention.
In the plant world, there is a phenomenon known as “dieback”. It is a way for plants to save themselves from dying completely when they are battling with extreme stressors, brought about by events such as drought, diseases or propagation.
During this time, they minimise their outward activities like reproduction or being a host plant. Instead, they channel all their energy inward to ensure the source that gives them life is protected.
Mostly, they manage this challenging process by taping on the elements of nature. Sometimes, external help is needed to overcome their stressors. And when they are ready, they reemerge in their glory.
Incidentally, we humans have similar abilities.
All of us are born with the innate ability to not only survive but to thrive.
Sometimes, external help is required to aid us in our inward restoration, although for most of us, they should not be a permanent solution less we start to believe we alone are never enough to thrive.
What do you think?
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